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Over the past few years I have seen a lot of articles and heard people saying that (usually aiming at millennials) choosing to not have children either because they don't want to or can't afford to or a combination of both is selfish. I remember one article a few months ago just ripping into millennials who choose to not have kids because they don't want to impact their quality of life or cannot afford the lifestyle they want with kids because apparently all you have to do is sacrifice everything and if you don't it is very selfish. It is becoming a choice: you can have a house, you can retire, or you can have children, pick two or sometimes just one depending on cost of living and forget about the others.
I don't see anything selfish in not having children, how is it selfish for someone to not want to give their parents grandchildren or because they cannot give their children the life they want? Certainly it is the would-be grandparents being selfish in that situation. Older generations seem to think that money and your lifestyle should not be a factor in determining whether or not to have children, just because they decided to pick different things from the pick two does not mean younger generations have to choose the same.
So what do you think? Do younger generations owe their parents grandchildren? Is it selfish to want a certain lifestyle for yourself and potential children?
It's selfish because we need people like you having kids rather than those ignorant ones who breed like rabbits then let them run wild.
:2razz: Just kidding. Not having kids is a personal choice that I wish more people were more self aware to make. Raising kids is hard and you don't owe anybody anything when it comes to your choice about having one.