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    Have you ever had a non-sexual friendship with a prostitute?

    When I was in college, there was this call girl that would come into the all night gas station I worked at and talk at 3 AM like clockwork. Eventually we started playing Spades. She liked how I didn't judge her and found her struggles to stay safe to be interesting. After clearing it with her pimp, she started having lunch with me and even going to miniature golf and other attractions. She said that I was the only person in her life that made her feel like a normal person.

    I remember one time when a customer beat her up, she asked me to come to her room and JUST watch TV so she could sleep. She was just too traumatized to be able to sleep without someone in the room.

    Just as people, I find NON SUBSTANCE ABUSING prostitutes to be interesting. They have interesting stories to tell and don't demand loads of social skills plus are open to talking about almost anything. Some of them make good friends without any money changing hands.

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    Re: Have you ever had a non-sexual friendship with a prostitute?

    Wouldn't you call this "being suckered by evil women just out to use you"? I'm pretty sure your policy was "no ****, no worth".

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    Re: Have you ever had a non-sexual friendship with a prostitute?

    Quote Originally Posted by ecofarm View Post
    Wouldn't you call this "being suckered by evil women just out to use you"? I'm pretty sure your policy was "no ****, no worth".
    She never had me pay her way. I enjoyed breaking up the monotony of the graveyard shift at that gas station. I felt like I was learning a lot AND I was under no pressure to "please" her. I never was made to feel like I had to walk on eggshells. I still think about her to this day. I hope she constructed a happy life.

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    Re: Have you ever had a non-sexual friendship with a prostitute?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    She never had me pay her way. I enjoyed breaking up the monotony of the graveyard shift at that gas station. I felt like I was learning a lot AND I was under no pressure to "please" her. I never was made to feel like I had to walk on eggshells. I still think about her to this day. I hope she constructed a happy life.
    Why doesn't that relationship play into your understanding of women? How can you experience that and still think it's not okay to be friends with women?

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    Re: Have you ever had a non-sexual friendship with a prostitute?

    And that prostitute's name was Albert Einstein.
    “personal attorney” to Individual-1, who at that point had become the President of the United States
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    I don't know who [Individual-1] is and neither do you.

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    Re: Have you ever had a non-sexual friendship with a prostitute?

    I actually was friends with a prostitute who used to come over to my place to chill, relax, and get away from it. We were just friends, nothing more. I was happy to offer her a refuge.

    Skip ahead a few months.

    She robbed me blind.

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    Re: Have you ever had a non-sexual friendship with a prostitute?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    When I was in college, there was this call girl that would come into the all night gas station I worked at and talk at 3 AM like clockwork. Eventually we started playing Spades. She liked how I didn't judge her and found her struggles to stay safe to be interesting. After clearing it with her pimp, she started having lunch with me and even going to miniature golf and other attractions. She said that I was the only person in her life that made her feel like a normal person.

    I remember one time when a customer beat her up, she asked me to come to her room and JUST watch TV so she could sleep. She was just too traumatized to be able to sleep without someone in the room.

    Just as people, I find NON SUBSTANCE ABUSING prostitutes to be interesting. They have interesting stories to tell and don't demand loads of social skills plus are open to talking about almost anything. Some of them make good friends without any money changing hands.
    Yeah, after smoking so much crack that I no longer wanted to ****.
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    Re: Have you ever had a non-sexual friendship with a prostitute?

    Quote Originally Posted by calamity View Post
    Yeah, after smoking so much crack that I no longer wanted to ****.
    Funny you should say that.
    I was newly sober (now in my twenty-fourth or 25th year*) but the idiot across the hall was a crackhead, and his girlfriend was a pros, and eventually his behavior was too much for her.
    And I too was still so under the effects from years of smoking crack that I too had pretty much no inclination either.
    Strange thing about coke, when you are new to it, at first it gives you "the dick of death", but over a long enough period of time it causes ED.

    Anyway, I just provided Nadine with an escape from Frank and nothing more. She was sort of interesting and depressing at the same time.

    (*Depending on if you count my two very brief falls off the wagon in the first year or not)
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    Re: Have you ever had a non-sexual friendship with a prostitute?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    When I was in college, there was this call girl that would come into the all night gas station I worked at and talk at 3 AM like clockwork. Eventually we started playing Spades. She liked how I didn't judge her and found her struggles to stay safe to be interesting. After clearing it with her pimp, she started having lunch with me and even going to miniature golf and other attractions. She said that I was the only person in her life that made her feel like a normal person.

    I remember one time when a customer beat her up, she asked me to come to her room and JUST watch TV so she could sleep. She was just too traumatized to be able to sleep without someone in the room.

    Just as people, I find NON SUBSTANCE ABUSING prostitutes to be interesting. They have interesting stories to tell and don't demand loads of social skills plus are open to talking about almost anything. Some of them make good friends without any money changing hands.
    It sounds like you were a real chump!

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    Re: Have you ever had a non-sexual friendship with a prostitute?

    Quote Originally Posted by joko104 View Post
    It sounds like you were a real chump!
    It didn't seem like it to me. That graveyard shift sure went by lots faster.

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