Anarchon
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microaggressions....who thinks of this ****?
First time I have heard of “long time no see” being a micro aggression against Asians, and I have an Asian wife and two Asian kids. I asked my wife wife if she found it offensive and she said, “No, that’s retarded”. I told her “retarded” is also politically incorrect. She asked what “politically incorrect” means. I replied, “ it isn’t important”.
You do realize that you've committed AT LEAST 2 fire-able microagressions with those 2 comments? What you don't seem to grasp, is that it's not really about whether your Asian wife was/wasn't offended by your comments. Its about the likelihood that some white leftist will be offended! As with the "Redskins" team name, it's up to Caucasian progressives to decide whether or not your comments should offend Asians or native peoples.
You nor she is expected to know everything. But if you don't know the next thing, you might be fined.
My impression is that Asians are not really into this victim building that we do, at least not first or second generations.
I know that many people snicker at university students as snowflakes for having hurt feelings over what someone says to them.
But I do think that in our daily interactions with people, we should be careful NOT to commit a microaggression (i.e., an unintended insult).
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1. If you have a very good Asian friend who speaks English even better than you, it would NOT be wise to greet him/her with "Long time no see, dude!"
2. If your best friend is an African American and you two have a heated argument, it would be wise NOT to say in anger: "Well, thanks for finally showing your true colors."
3. A school in Texas has just gotten into hot water because Halloween participants dressed up as undocumented immigrants. Really stupid to do something like that at any time.
4. A former FOX commentator once said quite innocently something like: "I have just eaten at a restaurant that is patronized mostly by [name of an ethnicity]. I was impressed that the patrons were eating and talking in an orderly manner."
a. Of course, he got some flak, but he was able to keep his job. (What brought him down was the MeToo movement.)
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Although I think that President Trump is doing a great job, I do agree that he should watch some of his words, for he is committing microaggressions that do really hurt people's feelings.
Yeah. They don't fall into the racial victim mindset trap that the left work so hard at setting. Instead, they ignore that garbage, they raise their kids with a 'success mindset', and they do very, VERY well as a result. It's a shame that democrats and their cultural Marxist activists are able to manipulate blacks and Latinos into falling into the victim trap. Because if the democrats weren't so insidiously evil in that way, and if they hadn't blocked civil rights for a hundred years after the civil war, black folks would be far happier and more successful on average, than so many of them are now.