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In a couple threads after the Charlottesville incident, I made some statements that pissed a lot of people off, about how stupid it was to be there at all after all the warnings.
I am sometimes far too blunt and fail to consider how people might take something I said.
On reflection, I wish I'd been more careful to NOT sound like it was HER fault, because it wasn't: it was the fault of the asshole that did the deed and
ran her over. I think it was DEEPLY unwise to be in that crowd given recent circumstances and all the warnings, but she didn't *deserve* to get run over.
I didn't convey that very well and since communication is largely sender-dependent, I guess that's on me. I should have expressed myself better.
I will assert as truth that being a victim doesn't make you automatically virtuous and magically deflect all criticism.... but in the raw aftermath of such an event,
I should have been more tactful in making my point, which was how unwise it was to be there at all.
I acknowledge that most of the criticism I drew over what I said was my own fault, for being far too blunt and not expressing myself clearly on some key points.
If I offended you, I apologize.
It was not Heather Heyer's fault she got run over, it was the fault of the jerk that did the deed. She did not deserve what happened to her. I regret if I sounded like I meant otherwise.
I am sometimes far too blunt and fail to consider how people might take something I said.
On reflection, I wish I'd been more careful to NOT sound like it was HER fault, because it wasn't: it was the fault of the asshole that did the deed and
ran her over. I think it was DEEPLY unwise to be in that crowd given recent circumstances and all the warnings, but she didn't *deserve* to get run over.
I didn't convey that very well and since communication is largely sender-dependent, I guess that's on me. I should have expressed myself better.
I will assert as truth that being a victim doesn't make you automatically virtuous and magically deflect all criticism.... but in the raw aftermath of such an event,
I should have been more tactful in making my point, which was how unwise it was to be there at all.
I acknowledge that most of the criticism I drew over what I said was my own fault, for being far too blunt and not expressing myself clearly on some key points.
If I offended you, I apologize.
It was not Heather Heyer's fault she got run over, it was the fault of the jerk that did the deed. She did not deserve what happened to her. I regret if I sounded like I meant otherwise.