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A question for the men of DP

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Do you consider yourself chivalrous in your relationship with your wife/girlfriend? What kinds of things do you like to do for her?
 
Yes. Why do I say that? Just look at me.
 
when i get married and expect her be a christian woman should need to submit to the male feminizais have totally destoryed the family when the family is rejcted society collapses and thats why we have abortions and men having sex with other men and signle mothers on welfare society needs to stop giving women everything they want men need to be the head on the family again so we can make this nation chrisitan again
 
ObamaIsAMarxist said:
when i get married and expect her be a christian woman should need to submit to the male feminizais have totally destoryed the family when the family is rejcted society collapses and thats why we have abortions and men having sex with other men and signle mothers on welfare society needs to stop giving women everything they want men need to be the head on the family again so we can make this nation chrisitan again
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Holy troll with no punctuation skills!
 
Josie said:
Do you consider yourself chivalrous in your relationship with your wife/girlfriend? What kinds of things do you like to do for her?
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My wife lets me get the door, and she loves flowers. Doing housework and going shopping with makes her quite amorous.
 
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ObamaIsAMarxist said:
when i get married and expect her be a christian woman should need to submit to the male feminizais have totally destoryed the family when the family is rejcted society collapses and thats why we have abortions and men having sex with other men and signle mothers on welfare society needs to stop giving women everything they want men need to be the head on the family again so we can make this nation chrisitan again
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I didn't know Tigger had a brother.
 
sorry i always forgot sorry i think familys are under attack by feminisists they rebel against what god intended and thats men as the head of a family when you reject biblical truth you reject how things are supoosed to be and thats why we have so many problems

Josie said:
Holy troll with no punctuation skills!
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I do whatever she tells me.
Josie said:
Do you consider yourself chivalrous in your relationship with your wife/girlfriend? What kinds of things do you like to do for her?
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Josie said:
Do you consider yourself chivalrous in your relationship with your wife/girlfriend? What kinds of things do you like to do for her?
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I am a little old fashioned in that regard, yes. No surprise, I'm middle aged and I was raised by Depression-era/WW2 farmkid parents.

If I invite a lady out for an evening, I consider it my responsibility to see to it that she returns home safe and happy inasmuch as it is within my power to insure this happens.

I tend to do things like hold doors, offer to take her coat, wait until she is seated before taking my own seat, and so on.

I don't order for her at dinner (that seems old fashioned even by my standards), but I typically indicate that she should order first if she wants, as a small courtesy.

I will usually pay for everything, unless she indicates a desire to pay half, which I will will usually reply something like "That isn't necessary, but you can if you wish to."

If there is to be a second date, then I might bring flowers or something. I don't usually do this on a first date, seems overly .... um.... overly something. :)
 
ObamaIsAMarxist said:
when i get married and expect her be a christian woman should need to submit to the male feminizais have totally destoryed the family when the family is rejcted society collapses and thats why we have abortions and men having sex with other men and signle mothers on welfare society needs to stop giving women everything they want men need to be the head on the family again so we can make this nation chrisitan again
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I know this is the internet, but a little effort with the spelling and punctuation would be appreciated... makes things much more readable you know.

Just sayin'.
 
soccerboy22 said:
Makes sense since the atomic American family has two kids.
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Atomic. Is that the same thing as the nuclear family? Is there some message to be taken from bombs being used to describe families?
 
Josie said:
Do you consider yourself chivalrous in your relationship with your wife/girlfriend? What kinds of things do you like to do for her?
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Absolutely!

opening doors, holding chairs, occasional, spontaneous purchases of small gifts, introductions as necessary and getting checks are all part of the deal. I do, however, limit my attendance with clothes shopping to no more than twice a year.
 
Lutherf said:
Absolutely!

opening doors, holding chairs, occasional, spontaneous purchases of small gifts, introductions as necessary and getting checks are all part of the deal. I do, however, limit my attendance with clothes shopping to no more than twice a year.
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i have never met such a guy .:mrgreen:
 
Lutherf said:
Absolutely!

opening doors, holding chairs, occasional, spontaneous purchases of small gifts, introductions as necessary and getting checks are all part of the deal. I do, however, limit my attendance with clothes shopping to no more than twice a year.
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Sorry...what?
 
Lutherf said:
Absolutely!

opening doors, holding chairs, occasional, spontaneous purchases of small gifts, introductions as necessary and getting checks are all part of the deal. I do, however, limit my attendance with clothes shopping to no more than twice a year.
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Oh hail no. I don't do shopping with women. Drop 'em off and say I'll met you in the food court in a couple hours, yes. Go with, no. I learned better decades ago, no man can match a woman in shopping stamina.
 
ObamaIsAMarxist said:
sorry i always forgot sorry i think familys are under attack by feminisists they rebel against what god intended and thats men as the head of a family when you reject biblical truth you reject how things are supoosed to be and thats why we have so many problems
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Yes, but how about those who reject literacy?
 
Goshin said:
Oh hail no. I don't do shopping with women. Drop 'em off and say I'll met you in the food court in a couple hours, yes. Go with, no. I learned better decades ago, no man can match a woman in shopping stamina.
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Treating a woman like a lady is a good thing, but shopping ain't chivalry.
 
Josie said:
Do you consider yourself chivalrous in your relationship with your wife/girlfriend? What kinds of things do you like to do for her?
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In public I do because that is when she wants it. Behind closed doors, she is like "Get the hell out of my way." LOL I like to keep her guessing.
 
I open the door for her, I take her on the long drives she loves, I remain patient while she takes time for a picture of a sumptuous meal, I get back out of bed when she wants me to check that the doors are locked. Lots of other things. Mostly, I just love her for the person she is.
 
Goshin said:
Oh hail no. I don't do shopping with women. Drop 'em off and say I'll met you in the food court in a couple hours, yes. Go with, no. I learned better decades ago, no man can match a woman in shopping stamina.
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Risky Thicket said:
Treating a woman like a lady is a good thing, but shopping ain't chivalry.
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Y'know, over the years I figured out that on occasion it can be a good thing....REALLY good thing.

I won't go for general stuff but if there is a special occasion coming up it seems that there are certain benefits to being there to offer an opinion. I think most women don't want us to join them for clothes shopping on a regular basis but if the plan is to drop a few more bucks than usual on something special then being there kind of takes the worry factor out of overspending for them.
 
Lutherf said:
Y'know, over the years I figured out that on occasion it can be a good thing....REALLY good thing.

I won't go for general stuff but if there is a special occasion coming up it seems that there are certain benefits to being there to offer an opinion. I think most women don't want us to join them for clothes shopping on a regular basis but if the plan is to drop a few more bucks than usual on something special then being there kind of takes the worry factor out of overspending for them.
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Mo' power to ya brother.... you are made of sterner stuff than I. :mrgreen:
 
I like to think Im a fairly progressive modern guy who likes to treat his property right.

I think Im very caring really, I mean for instance I talk to her.

For example when she bought some new shoes I asked her why she'd wasted so much money on them when shed still just look like a tramp anyway & after sex I sometimes turn to her and ask her to turn the light out, or to go make me a sandwich.

Ive held the door open for a few times, usually to let her back in when shes finally agreed to cook me a second supper, after I threw the first one at her for not cooking it fast enough.

& Im a thoughtful lover, I often think about other people when we're making love.

Oh & I let her talk in public sometimes, & you know what women are like, small brains, obsessed with shoes & shopping, so thats pretty generous of me too.

For some reason though Im single at the moment.
 
Risky Thicket said:
Treating a woman like a lady is a good thing, but shopping ain't chivalry.
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I would rather he NOT go shopping with me. I'd drop him off at a sports bar or something for a few hours.
 
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