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Even parents could do some spoiling. My dad would takes us hunting and fishing with him and his brothers, our cousins. Let us taste beer, hear dirty jokes we didn't understand, and all sorts of good stuff. Nothing like sharing an ice cream and a coke with dad, just the two of us. Or even better, a secret. Then again, playing catch with him, and letting me win at checkers. Perfect moments. Hearing mom say, "I made something special for you" when home sick and depressed with boredom, good spoiling.
One of the great moments of my life, dad took me, without my siblings to see John Wayne in the Alamo. We agreed those guys were stupid. Better to run, and fight another day. Three colonels and not a lick of sense. My dad said, "that's every officer." I said "You were an officer? He said "See what I mean?" I didn't, just got confused for a decade or so.
None of what you posted is spoiling a child.