It's sickening that one can say in all seriousness "at least they didn't start shooting." What is wrong with the police in this country? I know people all around the world. I never hear about this kind of insanity happening with any regularity in other European countries, etc. It's ridiculous.
I acknowledge it is a real problem, but its not just a police problem and if you are willing to listen with an open mind I will address it.
Setting aside just outright bad police work by incompetents., that does exist in a very small subset of these incidents where there is simple no excuse for what took place, acknowledging them for what they are, criminal malfeasance of a sworn person in a public office, let us look at the rest, the majority, of them.
There are three groups of people who have to accept that they are contributing to this:
1) The officers. They are fewer in number, the training isn't what it should be, departmental guidelines are frequently insufficient, and they are scared. We weren't as afraid when I worked the job as the officers these days, and they have some good reasons to be fearful. However, fear is not a good mindset for daily operation in a squad car. It causes mistakes. All kinds of mistakes. Over reactions. Under reactions. Rooted in spot reactions. Its just not good. We need to make police feels safer on the job. If we want more from them, that is what we have to do.
2) The hiring authorities. They have reduced starting pay. They have reduced pension and health benefits. Folks like myself tried to tell them that if they did this they were going to lose the best of us from seeking employment on our police forces. I'm no dope. I have always owned and been successful in small business while also holding my police job. One to make money, the other for the benefits. I like helping folks, and I am civic minded, and I had to make a living so if I could satisfy all those things by being a police officer then that is good reason to be a police officer. However, I also wanted a wife, a family, a good home and some of life's better things. If policing wasn't going to provide me opportunity to get some of those things than why, when I had options, be a police officer?
When you are losing the best candidates to the private sector because the starting pay for being a cop simply doesn't cut it, this is big part of the reason we are having some of the problems we are having these days. And the cost overruns lost to retraining, sick time, law suits, injuries, etc, etc, costs more than they are saving in the cutbacks they made to salaries and benefits of starting officers.
3) The African-American Community: This shouldn't be a controversial statement but I am sure this is what I will get the most flack for, but I am going to say it anyway, because it is true: You can not have a subset of your community (young Black men) create a culture that presents the message, "I am young, angry, Black and armed and I am going to get mine, even if it is at the point of a gun.", to the world and not expect the possible response to be. 'OK then, I believe you and I while I wasn't afraid of you before, now I am truly scared of you."
You can't expect to aim that culture at a group of people whose purpose is to maintain the public peace, who as I already pointed out are more afraid than they should be to be effective, and then deny this subset of the community that insists on pushing that message isn't adding to the problem. From the parents homes, to the pulpits, to the recording industry, to movie studios, to what-have-you there needs to be a declaring that .... OK, here it comes. the "Thug Life" (HEY, I didn't create the use of the term, and it wasn't applied by anyone, it was adopted by the community itself, if you have a problem with the use of the term take it up with the folks who coined it) thing has got to go.
If we want this to stop, and all of us with good motives and intentions do, EVERYONE needs to address their end of it. The police, the municipalities, the African-American community. ALL OF US, together, on the same page and pulling in the same direction.