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I have been to support groups where there are those who expend considerable money and effort to be "people pleasers". They generally stay unemployed and alone, basically having their lunch eaten at every turn. Then there are those of us that say "screw it", this trying to attune to people feelings and social concerns has a poor return on investment. The law demands certain things of us, but it also enables us to demand things of others. I tell these disadvantaged people (people who make social demands call them "losers" or even "incels") to just worry about what the law expects of them, but otherwise don't consider other people when pursuing your desires. When push comes to shove, they will walk all over you if it serves their interests.
The thing to keep in mind is to never be a sucker.
There are YouTube videos that talk about "simps" who think that there's an unwritten social contract that says others will take care of you if you just be a people pleaser. I say it's a scam. What say you?
The thing to keep in mind is to never be a sucker.
There are YouTube videos that talk about "simps" who think that there's an unwritten social contract that says others will take care of you if you just be a people pleaser. I say it's a scam. What say you?