The discussion is about reality/existence. World not part of my claim
The definition you posted was:
Reality:
the
world or the state of things as they actually exist, .
the state or quality of having existence or substance.
World very clearly is part of your claim. To bring this back to the original point, usually people who think there is no reality don't deny that there is truth, and may not even deny that things exist, or even that there are real things. They deny that there is a consistent domain--a world or state--in which truth dwells.
Another strawman, otherwise you would quote me saying the "word real is identical to the word reality". Which you cannot, and will not do.
You wrote:
Things that exist may not be real. <- you
Realty is the state of "existing". <- definition
Your definition has nothing to do with what I wrote, since "real" is not identical with "reality." I wrote "real". You wrote "reality." My point is that your refutation suffered from a problem of relevance. You cannot show my claim wrong by making an irrelevant claim about something else.
Things that exist may not be real
Sure. "Exist" is not identical with "real." Ergo, it's possible for something to exist, but not be real.
"Reality is" is self-evidently true/axiomatic.
Again, easy. If a claim is possibly false, it cannot be self-evidently true. Right? In that case:
"is" denotes being, which is a different concept from "reality." Therefore, possibly what is true of being is not true of reality. Ergo, "Reality is" is possibly false, and hence cannot be self-evidently true. I can spell all this out in formal symbols if you want (though it may be a little while; I'm leaving for a conference shortly), but I cannot imagine why it'd be necessary. The math obviously works.
real- actually existing as a thing
That's not quite what I wrote. I said "to be real is to be a thing, i.e. a physical thing." You're confusing different concepts, and treating them as if they're all identical: truth, real, reality, existing, being. Those are all apparently different, and only identical if you make certain further metaphysical assumptions.
You: Things that exist may not be real
Me: Real is defined as actually existing
(you contradict the definition....still)
Not exactly...I deny that you've given me or anyone any reason to accept your definition, and that furthermore, in the absence of a reason to accept it, it's reasonable to deny it, and furthermore, upon denying it, it's reasonable to think there is no reality.
If you didn't understand the relationship between real and reality, why didn't you just look up the definition?
It could be because I'm smarter than the people who write dictionaries, and am accustomed to talk over these and other similar issues with people who are also smarter than the people who write dictionaries.