Or maybe it's genetic.
One of the most important lessons a child needs to learn, before going out in the world, is how to interact with authority. The death of Michael Brown in Fergeson, Missouri is Exhibit "A" on what happens in its absence.
That genetics argument would be a great ego boost but my kids are only mine through legal means. Their biological father is the ultimate textbook definition of an "angry super-sized Aryan white guy with authority issues."
He's also a largely absentee father as well. Both kids think of me as their father but only because I love them so much. I did not have the honor of making them, only raising them when their father walked out on the marriage.
Amusing story: My daughter had
JUST gotten her driver's license in Texas, but she was a bit of a hot head when she got a ticket for excessive speed, and the officer was pretty hard on her. We'd been trying to get her to see the logic in treating a speeding ticket as a responsibility to be fulfilled and learned from, but you know how teen angst is sometimes a powerful factor.
Anyway, she was riding with me down the main drag in Mansfield and I was doing about 60 in a 45 zone. A Mansfield PD went by in the other direction, I saw him slow and prepare to make a U-turn in my rear view mirror and I immediately pulled over, put my wallet and keys on the dash and my hands on the wheel.
Officer Johnston strolled up to the car, leaned in and said, "Good morning, where's the fire?"
"You got me, officer, I was clearly going too fast."
"Is that why you pulled over?"
"Yup, I saw you, looked down at my speedo and knew you had me."
There was a bit of a pause, and then he said, "Let's see that license and insurance."
He took it, studied who I was, went back to his cruiser for a couple of minutes, then returned and said, "Well, I appreciate your cooperative attitude, I'm going to let you go with a warning, watch that lead foot, okay? Y'all have a nice morning."
My daughter's jaw was open like an oven door.
"Omigod, how did you do that?"
If you treat a cop respectfully, and like a human being, more often than not they're going to reciprocate.