Agreed.
I was.
But with girls (in my case, but it really doesn't matter in general - whatever floats your boat) who were also under the age of 18.
And there's nothing in any of our child sexual abuse laws that say a 16-year-old can't give a hand job to another 16-year-old.
When I was 19 and in to my early 20s I no longer had a sexual interest in 15 and 16-year-olds.
And I think that's probably the case for most reasonably well adjusted people.
If you're 18, and having sex with a 15-year-old, or 21 and having sex with a 17-year-old, you're wrong.
I agree that we're not living in the 1940s and that "kids these days" are becoming sexually active at younger and younger ages.
It's sad, in my opinion, that kids are surrendering their childhood to peer pressure when they should, by all rights, still very much be children.
But that doesn't make it okay for adults to take advantage of them.
We teach our children as best we can and instill them with our values as best we can but at the end of the day they're all still going to make some decisions, frequently bad ones, that go against our wishes.
Really nothing we can do about that.
This isn't about that.
This is about adults, who SHOULD know better, and who MUST be held accountable under the law for their own actions, being held to such account.
And I'll tell you what, in the interest of not being too much of a boor, I'll even concede, for the sake of argument, that maybe there is some biological gray area between the ages of 16 and 18 and 20.
Frankly I think it's nonsense because by the time you're 18 you can vote, drive, serve in the military, and do all kinds of other things that require even greater cognitive capacity than simply knowing it's wrong to have sex with high school kids.
But maybe there are a few poor, happy, maladjusted fools out there who just don't "get it" but are otherwise really great people and genuinely have nothing but love in their hearts.
So I'll say this, as an absolute line in the sand, 18 is a gray area but by 21 you are a child sexual predator if you're having any kind of sex with anyone under the age of 18 and you deserve a lengthy prison sentence, public ridicule and ostracism, and to wear your crime around your neck like an allegorical albatross for the rest of your life.