Has it ever occurred to you that part of patriotism is trying to make one's own country a better place? I know something of patriotism - I'm retired Navy.
And you're right that MOST Americans aren't afraid of immigrants...but most of the ones who are, are rural residents who have little day-to-day interaction with those of other nations and cultures...and most people who live in rural areas are conservative.
Oh, and when it comes to us sending our soldiers to die in other lands, you do know that
during Bush 43's very first cabinet meeting (in Jan. 2001, eight months before 9/11), one of the main topics was the invasion of Iraq, don't you? Also included was a discussion over what contractors would get access to which oil fields.
In other words, no, our soldiers didn't go to Iraq to save the Iraqis from Saddam Hussein - they went because
Bush 43 wanted to be a war president:
Two years before the September 11 attacks, presidential candidate George W. Bush was already talking privately about the political benefits of attacking Iraq, according to his former ghost writer, who held many conversations with then-Texas Governor Bush in preparation for a planned autobiography.
"He was thinking about invading Iraq in 1999," said author and journalist Mickey Herskowitz. "It was on his mind. He said to me: 'One of the keys to being seen as a great leader is to be seen as a commander-in-chief.' And he said, 'My father had all this political capital built up when he drove the Iraqis out of Kuwait and he wasted it.' He said, 'If I have a chance to invade...if I had that much capital, I'm not going to waste it. I'm going to get everything passed that I want to get passed and I'm going to have a successful presidency."
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According to Herskowitz, George W. Bush's beliefs on Iraq were based in part on a notion dating back to the Reagan White House - ascribed in part to now-vice president Dick Cheney, Chairman of the House Republican Policy Committee under Reagan. "Start a small war. Pick a country where there is justification you can jump on, go ahead and invade."
Bush's circle of pre-election advisers had a fixation on the political capital that British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher collected from the Falklands War. Said Herskowitz: "They were just absolutely blown away, just enthralled by the scenes of the troops coming back, of the boats, people throwing flowers at [Thatcher] and her getting these standing ovations in Parliament and making these magnificent speeches."
In fact, many of those same guys who took us to war in Iraq worked directly for those who sold missiles to Iran during Iran-Contra.
Next time, do try to be just as cynical of the "rah-rah-America" crowd as you are of those you call the "hate America" crowd.