chromium
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You just wrote them off as having 0 hope. Why try? You might as well sentence them to death. Again. Do you even vaguely understand how sickening that is? I hope to God you aren't a teacher of any kind. Separating a kid because you don't like his attitude?
Do you realize it is the obligation of the teacher and the school to actually try and create success in that "****ty" kids life? Create some hope? That "successful" kid you seem to think is special? He isn't. He will be fine. You could drop him in any school.
But that bully? Unlikely. That kid is the one who actually needs the attention. I've been that 1 person in a kids life before. And the difference it makes is amazing. 1 positive role model. And actually being able to show the kid that being a bully is what causes them to be ostracized and disliked? And that maybe if they were around good kids? And they weren't a dick?
I mean holy **** man. There is no reason to separate kids. They are kids. We are supposed to be a nation of equal opportunity. And you are arguing to separate a kid because they have an attitude?
As for "walking in their shoes," I don't buy it. I don't think you really understood it. If you did...then you would understand the obligation to work with the kids. And you are talking to someone who WAS bullied. Until the day I threatened to put a kid into the hospital...I was bullied.
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separate them because one is a *disruption* to the other. Great if you can make a difference someone to not be a worthless dickhead, fine, but in the meantime they can't be allowed to ruin others' lives
A lot of bullies aren't ostracized at all, but to the contrary their victims are. You really are clueless of what it's like to be different in a small town, or how infested with gangs the inner cities are
That someone would need to fight back to that extent shows how unfit K-12 is to prepare anyone for the real world. You just try to threaten to hospitalize someone at work or college or hell, the meijer parking lot and see what happens. In fact, if you transplant those same 15-18 year olds to another setting, such as the meijer parking lot, and they act the way do in school, expect the cops to be called
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