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Definately in the ball park, sjmay. In short, it states one can pull up their boots all they want with the same, or more desire to work hard and succeed, but if there is not a level playing field to walk on due to various dynamics, past and present, one can only walk so far, regardless of how far they are willing to work, or how hard they are willing to work. Does that make sense to you?
It does, it fits into what I told my daughter, that everything you get in life, you have to earn it, do not expect it to be given, and I told her, it's the same with black people, they have to earn everything as well, but whereas you might get easier/better choices or not have to work as hard to earn it, sometimes, they have to work double, and it still may not happen, that's a part of racism, but it doesn't mean you stop trying.
I find it frustrating though that people again, in general, not all of them, just quit after one, and say, it's not gonna happen because of XXXXXX etc, well no, you have to earn it, and **** ain't easy to earn.
Small background, I went from having no life plan not really caring, being homeless because I was an idiot, to living out of my car, to where I am now, owning my own business, working for myself, making a living where I can comfortably say we are middle class, and working on another project......did I face the battles that black people do, no, absolutely not, but I faced other challenges....
It's just really frustrating to I guess see "fake" racism at play, when there is real live racism that needs to be dealt with. The whole, it's because I'm black thing, to me, is self-fulfilling prophecy, while yea, it may be just because you are black and that absolutely is wrong and has to change, but it could just be you weren't qualified, and instead of doing something to get qualified, you complain about race.....