I was in the film production industry (as well as all facets of film and television) for almost forty years, an industry where many gay people feel at home, so yes, I have indeed observed it because I do have a great many gay friends, and I observe how careful some straight guys become about boundaries when they clearly weren't previously so.
For these kinds of people, it's a learning experience.
The exit ramp to all kinds of social and cultural friction is for people to be around other cultures more.
It increases social awareness.
There's nothing odd about it at all, because just like straights, gay people have their own social venues, and their own social norms and mores.
And...yes, there are indeed some rude and crude gay people too, just like there are in the straight world.
Nothing odd about it, except to you.
And I am not impressed that you suddenly feel the need to exert your swagger either.
That's a sign that you may be feeling threatened, maybe there's a cream for that or something, to calm you down.
Do I think you would react meekly as a victim might?
Hey, you seem to feel that's par for the course for an attractive TV reporter, yes?
Why yes, that is exactly how you feel and you can't deny it either, because here are your own words:
It's NOT different. That reporter is someone's daughter, or sister, or aunt, or mother, or girlfriend, or their wife.
So it's NOT different.
How often does everybody have to rub your own words in your face before the light bulb finally comes on for you?
At this point, I think it's just a matter of pride for you because you're realizing that not very many people agree with your arrogant statements of derision.
Oh yeah, she's a reporter, which to you, means she's really not a human being, thanks to your distorted view of the press and media in general.
We get that, too. To people like you, she's utterly expendable.
I do get that about you.
It says an awful lot about who and what you really are.