I did. It seems like so much excuse-making. It seems that Obscurity seems to have left his faith because he stopped believing in the foundational truth of the religious teachings, i.e., that a God exists. The same reason I did. Not that people in his Church were not nice enough.
What you're failing to understand about that is that the guy that still believes in god but stays home because he doesn't feel welcome at his local church is still a lost member for the church. The church with its hypocritical behaviors and fusion of Republican policies is driving a lot of people away from the church, not necessarily from god or a personal religion. The total drop in people who believe in god is just coming from the fact that people are better educated and more able to think for themselves, which is also devastating church numbers.
If one sincerely believes in the existence of God and that this God is the moral arbiter of the universe, then a bunch of nasty, dishonest hypocrites would not allay my faith. When I was a believer, there were more than a few s***-heels in my religious group. But we migrated to a different religious community when the rotten apples spoiled our bunch, as it were.
This proves my point nicely. You were dissatisfied with the toxicity of the church group you were at so you left. Doesn't mean you stopped believing in god, just that you're no longer going to be giving them money and their attendance numbers fall. A self-inflicted wound.
Let me ask you something, RabidAlpaca. What is there that Germans of all classes and backgrounds are able to come together regularly in a spirit of fellowship for? What in other words, has taken the place of religion in Germany? Soccer perhaps? Germanic racial supremacy in the case of the AfD?
What should take religion's place as a unifier? Or should there be nothing that unites disparate people?
I challenge your assertion that religion was ever a great unifier. Religion has never been open to "all classes and backgrounds" as each church is oriented towards a group of one specific background, for instance, Baptist Christians. Germany is full of many religions, and within even the dominant religion, Christianity, there's a huge divide between Catholic and Protestant, then hundreds of denominations within Protestant and an authoritarian style within Catholicism. Within those denominations they're all divided up by churches for local communities. So at most you're bringing together a very homogeneous ideological group in a very specific area.
The gap left by religion can be filled by literally anything, and I would assert that literally everything is ultimately more productive and fulfilling than having someone calm your existential dread by constantly reminding you you're immortal. Sports and hobby clubs, groups of friends, large families, coworkers in a job you're passionate about, whatever the individual wants. I was raised in it for 20 years and I personally never found any comfort in the community of the Christian church, which is one of the many reasons I left. I've never been one for clubs in the first place. I like small groups of friends that meet when we feel like it to grill and chill or whatever.
That is what I think so many religious people find so terrifying about losing the structure of religion. Without it, it's all incumbent on them to come up with ways to fulfill their own needs and destiny, it won't just be served up as a pre-packaged ideology for them. Defining your own philosophy is hard work and requires a lot of introspection, which most people aren't willing to do.
As an atheist do you feel like you're cut off from community and you're looking for something to replace the function the church once served for you? Why does that club or community have to be based on supernatural lies? I don't see that as a pre-requisite.