That's crap. What you are saying is that anyone who disagrees with your interpretation of racism is, by definition, a racist. It's pretty much akin to, "I can't define pornography but I know it when I see it".
Silly comment. My remarks were offered in clear, succinct, standard English. Next time, if you want to tell me what I'm "really" saying, do yourself a favor, don't paraphrase me; quote me directly.
Your problem seems to be that, like so many alt-right/white nationalist types who have lived blissfully ignorant lives of white entitlement, you don't understand what racism is. You think it's about feelings and emotions, but it's about actions. Racism and Bigotry are functional synonyms, not pure syinonyms.
One of the primary rhetorical tactics of people (all people) when defending arguments/opinions which they KNOW are predicated upon a superficial knowledge/understanding of the relevant subject matter...is to argue that there are no objective facts and insist that the issue is really just a matter of subjective opinion. That's what you're doing, here (along with a heavy dose of dishonesty by misrepresenting my previous remarks).
But the bottom line for you, here, is pretty simple. Racism and bigotry are not as subjective as most racists and bigots would like decent people to believe. In fact, Racism, in particular, is fairly objective. Discriminatory Actions and Behavior...speak louder than offensive, insensitive or careless words.
A Leftist's definition of a racist is: anybody they don't like.
An alt-righties rationalization for his white grievance/victimhood "issues", above.
Luckily, it doesn't change REALITY for most decent people.