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You know, when I got out the Navy, and my wife and I were homeless after a hurricane destroyed the business I was going to work for... everyone told me to sign up for "Unemployment" through Texas, as we pay into that through taxes it was due me. I was on it, I think 3 months. And I felt dirty as hell. It still bothers me. My wife didn't' as she had never worked in Texas she felt it would be wrong. We had NOTHING. I got a **** job, working in retail. At the time we qualified for food stamps and other programs, but we refused. I worked a few side jobs and despite having nearly been on the streets twice since that point some 13 years ago, I couldn't and wouldn't take another penny. We lived off ramen noodles and el cheapo products presents for near on a year. We had one car. Hell it took us 4 years to buy an LCD TV, we were still using a 32 inch CRT I got in 1994. We saved up for that and paid cash.
She got a job working part time that turned into a job that now could, should things work out and the COMPANY ACTUALLY SELLS... net us 750k. I bounced around a few jobs and now work from home for good money, great benefits. Hell I didn't have a cell phone for 6 years? Just recently got one...
But we went without rather than sign up for other programs, we went without when times got hard rather than take.
We were in a bad bad place, and I made the wrong choice to listen to others, a lesson well taught.
I don’t think you made the wrong choice. Everyone needs a helping hand every now and then. Everyone understands that. What people resent is when welfare becomes a generational thing.