Every gay friend I have, or ever HAVE had, says that self-loathing closeted gay men are perhaps some of the most dangerous people on Earth, and always have been. I don't normally dig that deep into the gay psyche...ahem, not normally.
This is something that they have all brought up at some time or another, I guess it just comes up in conversation, but it wasn't so very all consuming until the last few years. That is when I've heard it brought up the most.
I venture it's because so many self-loathing closeted gay men, mostly gay WHITE men but a few in the minorities as well, are acting out against the out gay population, on behalf of the Christian straights on the Right, or in any case, according to their PERCEIVED concept OF it "being on behalf of" Christian straights on the Right.
I bet any amount of money that Lindsey Graham is a self-loathing closeted gay Christian Right male Republican.
And this is what they do, and they do it vindictively, and it's that special "Hellfire Enhanced Pearl Clutching" style vindictiveness which is so dangerous.
And Miss Lindsey is outright pathological.