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I've never trusted people who use blaming others as a defense mechanism.
How old is the axiom, “spare the rod, spoil the child?” (This in no way condones child abuse.)
As stated, I am a middle Boomer, (1952). I experienced many disappointments that served me well when I encountered set-backs as an adult. No offspring just because I didn’t want any. As a parent, I think you need to expose your child to as many different things as possible and let them fail so they are prepared for the inevitable failures encountered in RL. I get blowback often as I have no first hand parenting experience, only three step-children in my first marriage. Still one of my pleasures is people watching, can learn much from watching....
“The boomers inherited a rich, dynamic country and have gradually bankrupted it."
They also raised the Millennials, typically as grandparents after their X Gen kids abdicated parental responsibility, probably because their Boomer parents never taught them any. And, that by itself proves the Boomers are America's worst generation.
Putting partisan spin on an analysis that chastises one generation really undermines the case. I think we need to get very specific about the core financial mechanism that caused this generation to harm the subsequent one. Wars, parental responsibility, the environment, climate change, all of that is fluff partisanship.
Partisanship aside, the literal financial mechanism that enabled the Boomer generation to bankrupt the subsequent one is pensions. Boomers didn't invent this whole concept, they just carried it forward. Nonetheless, here we are, with historic unfunded pension liabilities and an elderly generation that has never been better off coupled with a younger generation that has never been worse off.
There are two ways to even this out. One is to change our laws so that pension benefits can be cut. The other is to find ways to raise taxes specifically on older affluent Americans.
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I am a late boomer....I was the middle child of five born to a navy medic that served three tours in nam, won two Purple Hearts and a bronze star. He was a hard man...and it wasn’t until his last few years that he was able to talk about the horror of his experiences. One of our best days together was a half day spent at the wall. He raised us to stand on our own two feet...told us nothing worth having was free, and was the best man I have ever known in my life.
We didn’t have a lot growing up. Raising five kids on an E6 wage, and with your mom a waitress doesn’t put you in designer clothes or fancy cars. We shopped at goodwills, and drove 10 year old wagons. We learned respect, courtesy, manners, and to say yes sir. We learned that family matters, and love comes in a lot of forms.
You want to blame the problems of today on the boomers...yeah....every generation probably deserves some. But take a look in the mirror, and ask yourself if you are making a difference. I know my dad did. I know I am. Isn’t that what every generation needs to do? Be accountable?
Boomers then:
- Stole their parent's retirement by inventing vulture capitalism. Closed down and/or stole pensions and pushed most everyone remaining into 401k's for wall street to steal with their boom and bust cycles that they call "market corrections."
- Then created a debtors society so that they could bilk future generations while simultaneously stealing from past generations' retirements.
There is absolutely grounds for intergenerational grievance. But you have to go back to the greatest generation for the roots of this mess.
Not only did we come out of 1945 with a self important air when in fact we were spared by an accident of geography more than anything else.
Then that WW2 generation never heard about getting help for their many ailments and maladies. Lots of mothers that were stark raving maniacs driven more so having hysterectomies without hormone replacement. Fathers simply leaving their families to these mad-women as they went off to work off the family mortgage. Neighborhoods were a hidden swarm of domestic violence with everybody thinking that this is just how its supposed to be.....isn't it?? For example does anybody really think those guys coming from from WW2 were not a bit loopy? Heck they were at least as loopy if not more so than troops coming home today.
Once we discovered "therapy" and there was widespread deployment without the stigma attached to it (about 1970) we went overboard with it which led to participation trophies and school teachers that had no means to control students on and on and on. That was a big mistake. But it could have and should have been predicted as a backlash to a generation of hidden domestic violence that was extraordinary for its depth and scope.
But through it all from 1945 onward, no matter how crazy we were societally the one constant has been consumption at an ungodly rate.....and that is in fact what has brought us to this cliff edge were we are actively participating in crapping in our own nests. Gotta' keep consuming. Its the great American way certainly since 1945. Frankly, that is what a rejection of human impact on Climate Change is for one....crapping in our own nests.
“The boomers inherited a rich, dynamic country and have gradually bankrupted it."
They also raised the Millennials, typically as grandparents after their X Gen kids abdicated parental responsibility, probably because their Boomer parents never taught them any. And, that by itself proves the Boomers are America's worst generation.
That piece makes some decent historical observations, but it's a gross simplification to pin the problem on an entire generation. Same goes for blaming millennials or Gen-X'ers.
One thing in there that I haven't seen before but totally agree with : the late boomers (I'm one of them) are not anything like the early boomers. Growing up in the 1970's was very different. The world economy was a complete, spastic mess during that period.
Agree with the late boomer vs early boomer, big difference. I'm an early X'r and find a lot more in common with late boomers than later members of my generation.
You say your dad served in VN. You identify as a Boomer, can I ask what your birth year was? Boomers were over represented in Vietnam Nam and on the Wall.
The simple truth of it is that we as a country have been frittering away the once in a millennium advantage of having been on the winning side in a war that left the entire rest of the world in rubble without having a single bit of US property damaged outside of Pearl Harbor...
...So this "phenomenon" predates the boomers. The "greatest generation" certainly did nothing to suggest that they truly understood the scope of the advantage they had coming out of 1945. If they did, they would not have begun the process of consuming ourselves into oblivion....handing that aspect of American life down to future generations in the process.
Are you talking about all the boomer liberal burnouts from the 60's that ended up taking over tertiary education?...
...Then created a debtors society so that they could bilk future generations while simultaneously stealing from past generations' retirements....
...However, pensions by nature create the debtors society you mentioned. This is basically unavoidable so long as there are pensions...
Boomers beginning to shift retirements to 401(k) style plans is not what has screwed and is screwing the subsequent generation. Their failure to do so sooner and more sweepingly comprehensively is what screwed and is still screwing the subsequent generation.
You're right about our country squandering the huge advantage we had coming out of WWII. The world was in ruins, we manufactured almost everything and most industrialized countries were rebuilding. Although I couldn't agree more that the Boomers inherited more opportunities then the Millennials, you have to keep in mind that each generation sees more and more change at a quicker pace than the last.
"...Successive generations’ healthy disregard of the previous generation’s tastes, habits and customs is a necessary ingredient of human progress..."
I don't blame anyone for these posts blaming us, it's not new, everyone blames the last gen, I blame the Greatest Gen. I'm a Boomer too, born in the mid-fifties and came of age in the 70's, well after our consumer and credit society was well established.
But most everyone isn't mentioning everything the Boomers handed the Millennials on a silver platter. Their civil rights, the women's, free speech and environmental movements made radical changes to our society. Without them life would be like the 50's, not a pretty place if you're Jewish, black or a woman looking for work. But not so bad if you were a white male...
Thankfully, otherwise life would have turned out like it was in the 50's, see above ^^
Of course pensions just like socialized medicine most countries provide and our Medicare, they create a debit on society. That's why we have taxes and why we shouldn't double our country's debit to give the rich yet more money.
It's easy to lump a generation all together, but not all Boomers are responsible for our mess.
I got a pension in just before they went to 401k's and I'm so glad I have it. I don't think it was liberals who pushed for that change.