I am not complaining about these things... I am literally just stating my experience... the vast majority of interactions I have with other black individuals are great.
And I'm letting you know that your claim that the south isn't that racist, cannot reasonably be based on your single experience. I offered my own experience, that is a 180 from yours.
It's also strange that you're talking about how the south isn't racist, then you write "the vast majority of interactions I have with other black individuals are great." I was not aware we were discussing if black individuals are enjoyable to interact with or not...I feel that's likely racist right there, but you appear to be trying so I'll just note that it's very odd to me, to see you write that, when I thought we were discussing racism. Just so you know, that looks more like bigotry you experienced. Blacks are not the majority culture in the U.S., it's not really "racist". Knowing the difference is important. You can call it whatever you want, as long as you can understand the very fundamental and importance difference between:
1 being treated negatively as a minority race, by the majority race, because of your race.
2. being treated negatively as the majority race, by minorities, because of your majority race
Both are likely being treated unfairly...both are exhibiting bigotry.
But 1) is racism.
An extreme example, but imagine a different scenario. White immigrants who kick native Americans off their land for years using all sorts of methods, including killing, raiding, raping, etc.
Imagine you are a newly arrived white man, harboring no racial prejudices, and you come across one of these Native American tribes that have suffered under white invaders for years.
They see you and immediately hate you. Is that you trying to help the kids with their car?
Now, do you understand that their reasons, may not be because they feel you are an inferior race, sub-human, not as good culturally, etc. (racist) but instead hate you for the assumed misdeeds their culture/families have experienced at the hands of whites for decades? It is still wrong for them to assume you are the same as the other whites they know, that's true. But surely you can see that this is entirely different than how for example, some of those white Americans view the Native Americans that they are kicking off their land...as savages, sub-human, etc.
Both hate based on race, but one is entirely different than the other when you examine it more closely.