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A recent thread exchange on the topic of transsexuals in the military deviated into a political-social dispute over “being offended”. The points raised touched on language policing, and the recent PC admonitions against "offending" others. I think it worth discussing APART from the original subject.
The posters made a number of points suggestive of “a right to not be offended”. One poster’s points were:
- "It's intentionally disrespectful and painfully obvious when you refer toany person with a pronoun that that person has asked you not to usewhen you refer to her or him”
- "Peterson thinks that his right to call a person what he wants is moreimportant than a person's right to be called what she wants.”
- “I'm not offended on Manning's behalf specifically. I'm offended for myself and by extension, for the entire trans community.Minorities get abused this way by people who devalue their minority identity all the time”
Another poster made this point:
- "Yes, I and others have the freedom of speech to call them fake Christians but it still doesn't make it any less assholish to do so don't yathink? Same thing with transgendered people. Yes, you (general you not you personally) can call them by their biological gender instead of what they want you to call them, but all you're doing is being an asshole to them"
I have little interest in making this a narrow discussion about transexuals and Manning ; rather, I am soliciting others thoughts on the broader “principles” expoused above. Among the questions:
1)Is there a right to not be offended? Where does that right come from?
2)Is it logical to be offended on behalf of an individual you don't know?
3)Does a person have a right to be called what they want?
4)Is it wrong to “devalue” a minority identity but okay to devalue“majority” identities?
5) Should people be "corrected" in polite conversation (e.g. when someone uses the word "girls" rather than women?)
I await some thoughtful contributions...
The posters made a number of points suggestive of “a right to not be offended”. One poster’s points were:
- "It's intentionally disrespectful and painfully obvious when you refer toany person with a pronoun that that person has asked you not to usewhen you refer to her or him”
- "Peterson thinks that his right to call a person what he wants is moreimportant than a person's right to be called what she wants.”
- “I'm not offended on Manning's behalf specifically. I'm offended for myself and by extension, for the entire trans community.Minorities get abused this way by people who devalue their minority identity all the time”
Another poster made this point:
- "Yes, I and others have the freedom of speech to call them fake Christians but it still doesn't make it any less assholish to do so don't yathink? Same thing with transgendered people. Yes, you (general you not you personally) can call them by their biological gender instead of what they want you to call them, but all you're doing is being an asshole to them"
I have little interest in making this a narrow discussion about transexuals and Manning ; rather, I am soliciting others thoughts on the broader “principles” expoused above. Among the questions:
1)Is there a right to not be offended? Where does that right come from?
2)Is it logical to be offended on behalf of an individual you don't know?
3)Does a person have a right to be called what they want?
4)Is it wrong to “devalue” a minority identity but okay to devalue“majority” identities?
5) Should people be "corrected" in polite conversation (e.g. when someone uses the word "girls" rather than women?)
I await some thoughtful contributions...
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