SmokeAndMirrors
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This is why I firmly believe that it's a horrible idea for any male, this day in age, to make the slightest sexual overture to a woman. At some point that overture, no matter how well intentioned, can be taken as an affront and used as a bludgeon against the guy for any reason that strikes the woman's fancy. If the overture is made at work it can be a career ender. If your self employed it can destroy your business. If your a student it can get you kicked out of school and destroy your prospects for the future.
Something as simple as "I see you got your hair cut. It looks nice" can be turned into a sexual advance by a woman with an agenda or even just a woman in a bad mood. Maybe some guy creeped her out in the elevator but your the one that decided to comment on her hair so all that tension gets taken out on you.
The really scary part is that there's no defense for it. If a woman feels like she's the victim of harassment the guy is toast. The reason the guy is toast is because so many women view guys as predators. Like the OP says, there's "tons of them" and "it's not practical to foist them all out", which, of course, implies that if it were feasible that's exactly what should be done.
Where on earth did you get that from, in a post about people grabbing the privates and worse of people who are strangers, unconscious, or children? In what way is that similar to, "Your haircut looks good"?
Come back when you're ready to address the real issue.