Of course you're right.
I think the right wing media explicitly pushes the narrative that (liberals/dems) are accusing them of needing to feel guilt, or being racist themselves, etc. They drum up easy support when they do it, hit hits a nerve and you can see they will rage without looking at any evidence to he contrary.
What I'm curious to know is whether you think Kal's misrepresentation (accidental or not) of white privilege, was itself an example of a "race bait"? As you can see the people who swooped right in and took the bait to attack any/all notions of white privilege as "excuses (Renae), creating obligation (Harshaw), etc.", when as you point out, it's simply characterizing a real phenomenon on a societal level (my words).
Obviously we are all aware of certain fringe groups use the concept of white privilege to attack whites (check your privilege, you should give up your job to blacks, etc.). This is unfortunate, wrong, and should be opposed IMO.
Republicans are simply better using that same deplorable tactic in reverse, but instead of a fringe of supporters, they get let's say "most Republican voters" to agree with them. That's huge.
That's what Bannon meant when he said that he loves when race becomes the topic, that the Right crushes the left on it every time. Maybe the strategy to pull from this is the Democratic party/leadership/candidates should deny those extremists the way we required Trump to deny White Nationalists. Don't let them tie them to the party.