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Man Confronted About His White Privilege and Nice Car

Kal'Stang

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I saw this video and thought to myself that I REALLY needed to post it here as I think that this guy is dead on point and wish more people would realize just how right he is.

 
Great stuff.

There's nothing much worse, than a guy that's a whiner and complainer!
 
I agree.

I like the fact the video points out that many people have developed (been taught) unreasonable expectations from life that they deserve simply by existing.

People should try to realize that the world doesn't owe them anything.

That there is no such thing as a free lunch because someone somewhere is paying for it if you aren't.

That if you want something out of life then you have to step up, take personal responsibility, and work for it.

Self-motivation creates it's own rewards.
 
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I agree.

I like the fact the video points out that many people have developed (been taught) unreasonable expectations from life that they deserve simply by existing.

People should try to realize that the world doesn't owe them anything.

That there is no such thing as a free lunch because someone somewhere is paying for it if you aren't.

That if you want something out of life then you have to step up, take personal responsibility, and work for it.

Self-motivation creates it's own rewards.

My society absolutely does have obligations to me.

See the Constitution for instruction.
 
My society absolutely does have obligations to me.

See the Constitution for instruction.

Yes. It mostly has the obligation to leave you alone except in specifically defined areas of activity.
 
I saw this video and thought to myself that I REALLY needed to post it here as I think that this guy is dead on point and wish more people would realize just how right he is.



I have been saying the same thing on here since day one, and I started out in life similar to the man in the video. I was your run of the mill young Boston Irish kid with a abused mom who wouldn't leave the man who eventually murdered her. I was living the street life as a young thug, thief, and wannabe gangster because home didn't seem like a place I wanted to be.
 
A white guy tells a story about a conversation with a big black guy. The big black guy, citing white privilege, purportedly insulted the white guy for his skin color and nice Audi. The insult becomes catalyst for conversation. Accordingly, both men expound on growing up in dysfunctional homes. The white guy attributes success to a positive attitude. The big black guy does not have a job, wants a management job and has a negative attitude. The big black guy admits to living off of either welfare or disability. The white guy explains the big black guy does not have management qualifications and leeches off other hard working people. The big black guy agrees. The two men hug. The white guy gives the big black guy his phone number. The world has become a better place.

I find the story condescending. I offer a counter-point video with much more in-depth perspective -

 
I saw this video and thought to myself that I REALLY needed to post it here as I think that this guy is dead on point and wish more people would realize just how right he is.

Thanks for posting this, Kal; I've just sent the vid link to somebody I love very much.
 
Great stuff.

There's nothing much worse, than a guy that's a whiner and complainer!

Whining about complainers, I see.

;)
 
I saw this video and thought to myself that I REALLY needed to post it here as I think that this guy is dead on point and wish more people would realize just how right he is.

How much you want to bet the encounter he claims he had he didn't actually have at all, and he's just making this **** up? I don't believe for one second that a random stranger would make these statements to the face of someone they hadn't met. This sounds to me like this guy wanted to say something about White Privilege, and invented a straw man to go after.
 
Interesting video... At the start of the video it looked like just another rant about white privilege, ignoring the fact that privilege doesn't mean that bad stuff won't happen to you, but, as a member of the privileged demographic one has an easier time dealing with those bad things than a marginalized person in the exact same circumstances, statistically speaking.

However, as the story progressed, despite his railing about privilege, the guy used his privilege to do what we're supposed to do with our privilege, and that is provide the guy with some good advice and attempt to help even the playing field.

Privilege isn't the problem, it's simply a fact, supported endlessly with statistics in almost every aspect of life. But having it doesn't make you a bad person on it's own. It's what you do, or don't do, with it that determines that. There is nothing that anyone can do to change the past, but we can look at our greater ability to help, based on our privilege, and do so. I don't ever get angry when I'm accused of having privilege, despite having an extraordinarily difficult past. I'm more interested in how I can use that privilege to make sure someone else doesn't have to have it as hard as I did, regardless of where their starting point is.

I don't agree with a lot of the libertarian themed stuff he was going off about, but I give a certain level of slack to Americans on this front because more so than most places that's just how you guys are wired...and sometimes, despite all that, the decency that America was once known for still shines through, and I think, despite slightly problematic framing and a failure to acknowledge that the playing field isn't level, the guy in the video is a decent guy. Most folks would have just talked smack about the encounter, and gone on with their lives. That he was willing to support the other guy despite the initial disconnect is a good lesson, especially if the outcome is as he predicts.
 
How much you want to bet the encounter he claims he had he didn't actually have at all, and he's just making this **** up? I don't believe for one second that a random stranger would make these statements to the face of someone they hadn't met. This sounds to me like this guy wanted to say something about White Privilege, and invented a straw man to go after.

So did you Google Eric Post and learn a bit about him?
 
How much you want to bet the encounter he claims he had he didn't actually have at all, and he's just making this **** up? I don't believe for one second that a random stranger would make these statements to the face of someone they hadn't met. This sounds to me like this guy wanted to say something about White Privilege, and invented a straw man to go after.

The story is too apochryphal.
 
So did you Google Eric Post and learn a bit about him?

Nope, but I did now, and just as I suspected he seems like exactly the type of person I thought he was. A pretty typical conservative who has a lot of funny ideas about liberals and black people without really having much if any understanding about what it's like to walk a mile in their shoes. Sounds like the exact type of person that would invent a straw man just to knock them down and make themselves look and feel smart.
 
Interesting video... At the start of the video it looked like just another rant about white privilege, ignoring the fact that privilege doesn't mean that bad stuff won't happen to you, but, as a member of the privileged demographic one has an easier time dealing with those bad things than a marginalized person in the exact same circumstances, statistically speaking.

However, as the story progressed, despite his railing about privilege, the guy used his privilege to do what we're supposed to do with our privilege, and that is provide the guy with some good advice and attempt to help even the playing field.

Privilege isn't the problem, it's simply a fact, supported endlessly with statistics in almost every aspect of life. But having it doesn't make you a bad person on it's own. It's what you do, or don't do, with it that determines that. There is nothing that anyone can do to change the past, but we can look at our greater ability to help, based on our privilege, and do so. I don't ever get angry when I'm accused of having privilege, despite having an extraordinarily difficult past. I'm more interested in how I can use that privilege to make sure someone else doesn't have to have it as hard as I did, regardless of where their starting point is.

I don't agree with a lot of the libertarian themed stuff he was going off about, but I give a certain level of slack to Americans on this front because more so than most places that's just how you guys are wired...and sometimes, despite all that, the decency that America was once known for still shines through, and I think, despite slightly problematic framing and a failure to acknowledge that the playing field isn't level, the guy in the video is a decent guy. Most folks would have just talked smack about the encounter, and gone on with their lives. That he was willing to support the other guy despite the initial disconnect is a good lesson, especially if the outcome is as he predicts.




I wish I had me some white privilege when I was young. would have made all this soo soo much easier.
 
Well, what color is the Audi?
 
A white guy tells a story about a conversation with a big black guy. The big black guy, citing white privilege, purportedly insulted the white guy for his skin color and nice Audi. The insult becomes catalyst for conversation. Accordingly, both men expound on growing up in dysfunctional homes. The white guy attributes success to a positive attitude. The big black guy does not have a job, wants a management job and has a negative attitude. The big black guy admits to living off of either welfare or disability. The white guy explains the big black guy does not have management qualifications and leeches off other hard working people. The big black guy agrees. The two men hug. The white guy gives the big black guy his phone number. The world has become a better place.

I find the story condescending. I offer a counter-point video with much more in-depth perspective -

How is what that girl did any more wrong than what the black dude did in the 1st video? IMO both were inappropiate displays of racism. The only difference I see is the victims reaction. The first guy used it as an opprotunity to make it something positive. The second guy and the interviewer used it in a negative way.

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He forgot about his male cisgender heterosexual privilege. :lamo
 

So then see the part about privilege not protecting you from hard times, just that being in the privileged demographic you have an easier time of it than someone in a marginalized demographic in the exact same circumstances. It's not even that really that controversial of a notion, if you think about it...
 
How is what that girl did any more wrong than what the black dude did in the 1st video? IMO both were inappropiate displays of racism. The only difference I see is the victims reaction. The first guy used it as an opprotunity to make it something positive. The second guy and the interviewer used it in a negative way.

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Both videos frame a discussion. Only one video fleshes out pertinent details by extensively giving us names and visuals of key people in the discussion. The interviewer interviews several of those key people. This makes the story much more multi-faceted.

Eric Post presented a one-sided story. I know just a little bit more about the big black guy than I do about Trump's friend Jim that stopped going to Paris.
 
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