How dark would you make the roux?
That would depend upon two factors, the type of soup or sauce I'm making, and the types of spices and/or herbs I'm using. How much flavor do I want from the roux lipid, be it butter or olive oil, or like others sometimes use, duck fat.
I personally found, experimentation with the same or similar recipes brought me to where I eventually wanted to be, and that was my determinant. Some chef's, especially restaurant chef's look for constants of flavor, repetition because the menu so demands. The home chef, regardless of perceived quality, has more room for variations. We view the end results of say a bouillabaisse between different restaurants, different chefs, as better or worse than one another, when really it is only a difference from what we first expected in flavor and textures that appeals to us more. Neither is really better or worse, just different, or extremely foul because of other poor ingredients not shopped well. 10 day old fish doesn't make for aa good bouillabaisse no matter how a chef tries to hide the lack of freshness.
What is good for my taste, you may dislike and vice versa. Therefore all I can advise is experiment and please yourself. Plus on one day, a lighter roux with lighter spices may please your palate, another day, a darker roux and more intense spices, with an overlay of savory. If I sound evasive, it is because I am being evasive.
You need to find your own path, and to learn which path will best meet your palate and mood. A richer fish may demand a darker roux for you, a whiter fish, less. One may demand spicy, the other savory, or vice versa again. Are you using sweet peppers or tomatoes to flavor your soup or sauce? What difference will that make? Back to the issue of variables and experimentation.
I stopped cooking to recipes a long time ago, now I cook around them, using different experiences to alter the menu, sometimes pleasingly, and sometimes it is necessary to go out to dinner after dinner.
I think it is all about exploration and having fun. Food is a necessity, but it should also be an adventure in the making and enjoying. Sometimes adventures crash in the dessert.