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I gained a few pounds.

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In the wake of the Las Vegas shooting, it kinda feels a bit stupid to post some good news.

But I just weighed myself a little while ago, and I've gained about 3 pounds in a period of about a month. This is great for me, because I have a really difficult time gaining weight, because I have a high metabolism. Back in my senior year in HS, I used to starve myself sometimes, and I had lost quite a bit of weight because of it. My old doctor and my parents were concerned about my weight (I wasn't severely underweight, but still underweight), so I started eating a whole bunch, and drinking protein shakes, and all of that. And I've been trying to keep that up ever since I got to college; going to the dining hall a whole lot. I also bought a whole lot of protein bars at Wal-Mart. I got sick about a few weeks ago, so that kinda threw me off for a little bit; I still ate, it was just really annoying because I couldn't stop coughing. But ever since I recovered I've been eating more.

I know weigh 94 lbs. Hooray for me!
 
That's beer for you.
 
Well on your way to the freshman 15
 
In the wake of the Las Vegas shooting, it kinda feels a bit stupid to post some good news.

But I just weighed myself a little while ago, and I've gained about 3 pounds in a period of about a month. This is great for me, because I have a really difficult time gaining weight, because I have a high metabolism. Back in my senior year in HS, I used to starve myself sometimes, and I had lost quite a bit of weight because of it. My old doctor and my parents were concerned about my weight (I wasn't severely underweight, but still underweight), so I started eating a whole bunch, and drinking protein shakes, and all of that. And I've been trying to keep that up ever since I got to college; going to the dining hall a whole lot. I also bought a whole lot of protein bars at Wal-Mart. I got sick about a few weeks ago, so that kinda threw me off for a little bit; I still ate, it was just really annoying because I couldn't stop coughing. But ever since I recovered I've been eating more.

I know weigh 94 lbs. Hooray for me!

It's called the freshman 15. ;)
 
You can have some of mine. :)



I've lost 20 pounds in 3 months, without dieting... been hitting the gym 2-3 times a week.

20 down, 60 to go... but hey I didn't put it all on overnight, so if it takes another 9 months to get it all off, ok then. :)
 
You can have some of mine. :)



I've lost 20 pounds in 3 months, without dieting... been hitting the gym 2-3 times a week.

20 down, 60 to go... but hey I didn't put it all on overnight, so if it takes another 9 months to get it all off, ok then. :)

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In the wake of the Las Vegas shooting, it kinda feels a bit stupid to post some good news. But I just weighed myself a little while ago, and I've gained about 3 pounds in a period of about a month. This is great for me, because I have a really difficult time gaining weight, because I have a high metabolism. Back in my senior year in HS, I used to starve myself sometimes, and I had lost quite a bit of weight because of it. My old doctor and my parents were concerned about my weight (I wasn't severely underweight, but still underweight), so I started eating a whole bunch, and drinking protein shakes, and all of that. And I've been trying to keep that up ever since I got to college; going to the dining hall a whole lot. I also bought a whole lot of protein bars at Wal-Mart. I got sick about a few weeks ago, so that kinda threw me off for a little bit; I still ate, it was just really annoying because I couldn't stop coughing. But ever since I recovered I've been eating more. I know weigh 94 lbs. Hooray for me!

Dayham girl, you must have to put rocks in your pocket to keep from being blown away some days... :peace
 
You can have some of mine. :)



I've lost 20 pounds in 3 months, without dieting... been hitting the gym 2-3 times a week.

20 down, 60 to go... but hey I didn't put it all on overnight, so if it takes another 9 months to get it all off, ok then. :)

I lost 60 lbs from November 7th of last year to July Fourth of this year. But it took more like six days a week at the gym, and moderate dieting, plus I experimented with a few weight loss "helpers".
 
I lost 60 lbs from November 7th of last year to July Fourth of this year. But it took more like six days a week at the gym, and moderate dieting, plus I experimented with a few weight loss "helpers".


As I get closer to my goal I expect to have to take greater measures to get that last 20-30 pounds off. Seems to be the case many times.
 
In the wake of the Las Vegas shooting, it kinda feels a bit stupid to post some good news.

But I just weighed myself a little while ago, and I've gained about 3 pounds in a period of about a month. This is great for me, because I have a really difficult time gaining weight, because I have a high metabolism. Back in my senior year in HS, I used to starve myself sometimes, and I had lost quite a bit of weight because of it. My old doctor and my parents were concerned about my weight (I wasn't severely underweight, but still underweight), so I started eating a whole bunch, and drinking protein shakes, and all of that. And I've been trying to keep that up ever since I got to college; going to the dining hall a whole lot. I also bought a whole lot of protein bars at Wal-Mart. I got sick about a few weeks ago, so that kinda threw me off for a little bit; I still ate, it was just really annoying because I couldn't stop coughing. But ever since I recovered I've been eating more.

I know weigh 94 lbs. Hooray for me!


Most people battle obesity and probably don't understand being "too thin" at all.
I was always one of the skinniest kids in school, even into my first couple or three years of college. I think that it's even worse for a guy than a gal because guys are supposed to be strong and are expected to weigh more than girls. I also had a little infatuation with muscular athletic bodies, but I was too ashamed of my skinny to ever step into a gym. Finally, around my third year of college, I did step into a gym, and I had fairly decent results. Not the amazing results that I had seen a few guys with rare genetics have, but I definitely gained weight, and mostly muscle mass. Then, as I reached my middle twenties, marrage, home ownership, career, and becoming a parent became more important than the gym.

During the next few decades, I went from being a lean 175 (still a little skinny for an average height male, but at least I was in the "normal" range) to a really fat 250 with no muscle at all. In my late fourties (I'm 52 now), I started going back to the gym, and I realized how much I missed it. Within a year I started getting compliments (sortof), like people constantly asking me if I workout, or how I lost weight, or how I gained so much muscle, or "how much do you bench" (I really hate that question, but it's still a compliment because they are recognizing the hard work that I put in at the gym).

Keep using the protein supplements, but if you aren't doing any strength training, your weight gain is mostly going to be fat, and by the time that you get to whatever it is you consider a normal weight, you will be what us gym rats call "skinny fat", where you are normal size, but below normal in muscle mass (its a lack of muscle mass that most of us skinny people have), and you will not look any more healthy at an average weight than you do now at a skinny weight.

A lot of gals have a fear of becoming "too bulky" from weight training, but honestly that's not going to happen. I have seen gals your age who are pretty serious about their weight training, but they only gain four to five lbs a year. Females rarely have the testosterone level to gain muscle mass very fast. Most of those really thick muscular ladies who are bodybuilders or top level athletes or cross fit competitors either have very rare freaky genetics, or they take tons of black/gray market anabolic drugs.

Anyhow, it sounds like your diet is already "on point", if you added a serious weight training workout to that diet, you would look awesome in no time flat. Ladies don't have to gain massive amounts of muscle to have that toned athletic look, most average height female fitness competitors/models only weigh between 110 and 125 and some of the shorter girls might not weigh that much. It's really not about the weight, it's about the curves that having more muscle create.

In my case, I spent most all of my youth being overly self conscious about being skinny, and then a decade (or two) self conscious about becoming fat. I don't have that many regrets in life, but one of them is not starting progressive resistance training at a younger age, and not continuing it for lifelong fitness and self confidence. Let me encourage you to get into a gym, and to stick with it.
 
Dayham girl, you must have to put rocks in your pocket to keep from being blown away some days... :peace

Hey, it used to be worse. I used to weight 86 pounds.

I'm so light, my dad can still pick me up and throw me in the air. :lol:
 
Most people battle obesity and probably don't understand being "too thin" at all.
I was always one of the skinniest kids in school, even into my first couple or three years of college. I think that it's even worse for a guy than a gal because guys are supposed to be strong and are expected to weigh more than girls. I also had a little infatuation with muscular athletic bodies, but I was too ashamed of my skinny to ever step into a gym. Finally, around my third year of college, I did step into a gym, and I had fairly decent results. Not the amazing results that I had seen a few guys with rare genetics have, but I definitely gained weight, and mostly muscle mass. Then, as I reached my middle twenties, marrage, home ownership, career, and becoming a parent became more important than the gym.

During the next few decades, I went from being a lean 175 (still a little skinny for an average height male, but at least I was in the "normal" range) to a really fat 250 with no muscle at all. In my late fourties (I'm 52 now), I started going back to the gym, and I realized how much I missed it. Within a year I started getting compliments (sortof), like people constantly asking me if I workout, or how I lost weight, or how I gained so much muscle, or "how much do you bench" (I really hate that question, but it's still a compliment because they are recognizing the hard work that I put in at the gym).

Keep using the protein supplements, but if you aren't doing any strength training, your weight gain is mostly going to be fat, and by the time that you get to whatever it is you consider a normal weight, you will be what us gym rats call "skinny fat", where you are normal size, but below normal in muscle mass (its a lack of muscle mass that most of us skinny people have), and you will not look any more healthy at an average weight than you do now at a skinny weight.

A lot of gals have a fear of becoming "too bulky" from weight training, but honestly that's not going to happen. I have seen gals your age who are pretty serious about their weight training, but they only gain four to five lbs a year. Females rarely have the testosterone level to gain muscle mass very fast. Most of those really thick muscular ladies who are bodybuilders or top level athletes or cross fit competitors either have very rare freaky genetics, or they take tons of black/gray market anabolic drugs.

Anyhow, it sounds like your diet is already "on point", if you added a serious weight training workout to that diet, you would look awesome in no time flat. Ladies don't have to gain massive amounts of muscle to have that toned athletic look, most average height female fitness competitors/models only weigh between 110 and 125 and some of the shorter girls might not weigh that much. It's really not about the weight, it's about the curves that having more muscle create.

In my case, I spent most all of my youth being overly self conscious about being skinny, and then a decade (or two) self conscious about becoming fat. I don't have that many regrets in life, but one of them is not starting progressive resistance training at a younger age, and not continuing it for lifelong fitness and self confidence. Let me encourage you to get into a gym, and to stick with it.

I have gone to the gym a few times here, but not on a regular basis. I should probably start going more often.

I am self-conscious about my weight too. I fact, I'm just really self-conscious about my body in general. I'm skinny, short, and I'm flat-chested as a mother****er.

Hopefully I can keep this up and gain more weight. And if I go to the gym on a regular basis that will be even better.
 
I have gone to the gym a few times here, but not on a regular basis. I should probably start going more often. I am self-conscious about my weight too. I fact, I'm just really self-conscious about my body in general. I'm skinny, short, and I'm flat-chested as a mother****er. Hopefully I can keep this up and gain more weight. And if I go to the gym on a regular basis that will be even better.
My advice would be not to worry about what other people think of your looks. If they are that judgmental or dislike you because you do not fit their perception of perfect then they are not worth knowing anyway. Be thankful that you can maintain a healthy weight. I also had a very fast metobolism when I was younger and when active I would consume 6K+ calories a day and never gain a pound. Once I hit my forties my metabolism hit the breaks and now I need to watch what I eat more carefully. Also nothing wrong with being flat chested, some guys prefer small ones over big ones. :2wave:
 
My advice would be not to worry about what other people think of your looks. If they are that judgmental or dislike you because you do not fit their perception of perfect then they are not worth knowing anyway. Be thankful that you can maintain a healthy weight. I also had a very fast metobolism when I was younger and when active I would consume 6K+ calories a day and never gain a pound. Once I hit my forties my metabolism hit the breaks and now I need to watch what I eat more carefully.

Yeah, I say that to myself a lot, to not give a **** what anyone else thinks. And plenty of times that is my attitude. But sometimes, it's hard not have that on the back of my mind. I kinda go back and forth.

Also nothing wrong with being flat chested, some guys prefer small ones over big ones. :2wave:

Oh, I know. Trust me. Even though guys aren't what I'm going for, I have had a few awkward incidents recently. :lol:
 
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Hey, it used to be worse. I used to weight 86 pounds.

I'm so light, my dad can still pick me up and throw me in the air. :lol:

86 lbs???

Good God...you heifer, you..... :mrgreen:

I wish I could donate some of my weight to your cause.
 
I lost 60 lbs from November 7th of last year to July Fourth of this year. But it took more like six days a week at the gym, and moderate dieting, plus I experimented with a few weight loss "helpers".

I lost 100lbs in 7 months with a paleo diet 5 days a week 2 cheat days and 5 days a week weight lifting in the gym. Once you get in the habit it was rather easy to maintain. Sadly though my work hours changed and was working 10 hours a day for 6-7 days a week and got out of my routine and put 30lbs back on. I'm about to get back on a routine but my plan is to get in a habit that is easily manageable even if my circumstances change.
 
In the wake of the Las Vegas shooting, it kinda feels a bit stupid to post some good news.

But I just weighed myself a little while ago, and I've gained about 3 pounds in a period of about a month. This is great for me, because I have a really difficult time gaining weight, because I have a high metabolism. Back in my senior year in HS, I used to starve myself sometimes, and I had lost quite a bit of weight because of it. My old doctor and my parents were concerned about my weight (I wasn't severely underweight, but still underweight), so I started eating a whole bunch, and drinking protein shakes, and all of that. And I've been trying to keep that up ever since I got to college; going to the dining hall a whole lot. I also bought a whole lot of protein bars at Wal-Mart. I got sick about a few weeks ago, so that kinda threw me off for a little bit; I still ate, it was just really annoying because I couldn't stop coughing. But ever since I recovered I've been eating more.

I know weigh 94 lbs. Hooray for me!

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I have gone to the gym a few times here, but not on a regular basis. I should probably start going more often.

I am self-conscious about my weight too. I fact, I'm just really self-conscious about my body in general. I'm skinny, short, and I'm flat-chested as a mother****er.

Hopefully I can keep this up and gain more weight. And if I go to the gym on a regular basis that will be even better.

If you have access to a large (and free) college weight room, that would be awesome. the college that my son went to has to very large fitness centers, the larger one is the largest in the world, the smaller one is the second largest in the world. Both of them had outstanding equipment, although the smaller of the two has fairly old equipment. College weight rooms used to be tiny and poorly equipped, but these days they seem to be better than most private gyms.

Seriously, you should get into a regular weight training routine (starting out easy and adding either weight, or another rep or another set every week, eventually working out exactly how competitive bodybuilders work out) and once you start seeing the results you will love it. Most people just don't go enough, or don't have a good workout routine (lack of knowledge) or don't go long enough to see results. When I started back at age 48, it took about three months before I realized that it was actually working: I was at work and scratched my arm and suddenly realized that it felt different. Not bigger, not smaller, but much more firm. Three months after that other people started seeing the difference. Now it's rare that more than a few days go by without me getting some sort of compliment, and I'm not someone who has ever had compliments on the way I look before I started weight training.

The reason I suggest that your goal should be to workout like bodybuilder workout isn't to turn you into a bodybuilder, that takes years and years (even decades), and typically a ton of drugs. It's that bodybuilders have developed routines that give the optimal results as quickly as possible. I dunno why anyone would want less than optimal results, or why they wouldn't want results as quickly as possible. There are lot's of weight training forums and videos on the internet. It may even be worth the cost to hire a trainer for a few sessions to help get you started, just be honest with the trainer, most people tell their trainer that they "just want to tone up a little", so their trainer starts them out with exercises that aren't really that effected for gaining mass. Tell your trainer that you want to gain as much muscle mass as quickly as you can. And if you trainer doesn't look like he/she works out, then dump them and find someone who looks like they live in a gym - how can someone who doesn't look really fit and strong give you good advice an becoming really fit and strong?

If you have any questions, or if there is anyway that I can help motivate you, please feel free to message me or post here.
 
If you want to gain weight, up intake of beer and pizza. After the gym, of course.
 
In the wake of the Las Vegas shooting, it kinda feels a bit stupid to post some good news.

But I just weighed myself a little while ago, and I've gained about 3 pounds in a period of about a month. This is great for me, because I have a really difficult time gaining weight, because I have a high metabolism. Back in my senior year in HS, I used to starve myself sometimes, and I had lost quite a bit of weight because of it. My old doctor and my parents were concerned about my weight (I wasn't severely underweight, but still underweight), so I started eating a whole bunch, and drinking protein shakes, and all of that. And I've been trying to keep that up ever since I got to college; going to the dining hall a whole lot. I also bought a whole lot of protein bars at Wal-Mart. I got sick about a few weeks ago, so that kinda threw me off for a little bit; I still ate, it was just really annoying because I couldn't stop coughing. But ever since I recovered I've been eating more.

I know weigh 94 lbs. Hooray for me!

I feel the pain. I've never had issues with eating behavior per se, but I have always struggled to keep weight on myself, especially under high levels of stress. Stress and anxiety can cause nausea for a lot of people including me, and put off the appetite.

A few suggestions:

1. Work out with a high protein diet, and a calorie surplus. If you're eating a calorie surplus, you'll gain weight, and the consistent high activity will help remind you to eat. Eating a high protein diet also packs more calories into a smaller quantity, which will help you eat more without feeling like you're going to explode. The feeling of hunger is more compelling when your body is trying to build muscle, at least for me. I have found that for me, working out consistently is really the only way I can KEEP weight I put on, weirdly enough. I'll gain a couple pounds if I'm sedentary for a while, but it's gone once I get moving again. That consistent habit of working out keeps my appetite up, and reminds me to eat more (and obviously it's healthier than gaining purely from being sedentary with a calorie surplus -- it's still unhealthy to be out of shape, even if you're not overweight). I also agree with imagep that weight training of some sort is probably a good idea. You want to avoid stuff like cardio if your goal is to add weight. And hey, it'll probably also help give you the curvier look you want. Your middle may trim a bit, but the poles of your body will likely fill out. But try to be comfortable in your body in all its forms.

2. Spread out your eating through the day. Something I notice is common to we thinner people is that we tend to naturally do "intermittant fasting," which is something some people do on purpose to try to stabilize their weight. It's basically where you eat all your daily calories in a relatively short window of the day -- like 6 hours or something. It's not unhealthy to do that, but it will make it harder for you to gain weight. So try to eat more, smaller meals throughout the day.

3. Those protein drinks are good stuff, especially if you've had a history with eating issues. It's a small volume that packs a lot of calories, and may be more comfortable for you. I've used that when I've been nauseated by stress and it helps stop me from losing. Ensure tastes pretty alright.

If you look up anything online, be sure to filter out the stuff that's really weight loss tips. That's what 95% of people are looking for, and so that's most of the common wisdom we hear every day for healthy bodies, and the first things you'll see on Google. People trying to gain weight are a small club, and you need to filter out tips for that specific issue.
 
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