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my assumption is this is a lady you would like to remain friends with since she is a part of your local social circle
then attend the Christmas services with her and be cordial when meeting her parents. if you are able to, without sounding forced, try to share with them how wonderful their daughter is. since she is your friend, hopefully, that will not be a difficult thing to do
unless she broaches the subject about taking your platonic friendship to a different status, you are fine. you still have a good female friend and now her parents will think well of you, too. no need to destroy that good - yet platonic - friendship
continue to be a platonic friend. that doesn't change unless you let it
now, if you have an existing romantic relationship with her you are wanting to cut off because you want to move on to another woman, forget what i posted above. you're on your own. and it may be possible she will be ok with your getting some strange on the side
In the case of getting some strange he'd have to have a death wish to tell her. I tried that once with a lady I was dating. There's nothing like a kick in the nuts to drive home a point being made. That was when I learned not to talk to my strange about getting strange from my strange. (One was from Hickory and the other lived in Boone.)