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A friend of mine threw away a perfectly good marriage

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SDET

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A friend of mine recently bought me lunch asking me how to access loose women because his divorce was recently finalized. He said it was because his wife and sister were always fighting. It was obvious that it was mostly because he was bored with his marriage. I mentioned before he did this that he should consider a fling with a younger woman. His reply was that his wife would never tolerate that. What did he have to lose? He's just as divorced now. There's a chance that she would have tolerated it. He traded a guaranteed loss for a possible win.

Regarding my current advice, I told him to 100% forget horsing around here in the USA. He will only waste his money AND walk away frustrated for his efforts. I gave him detailed information how to make the 10 hour road trip to Mexico and about SAFE venues where someone would help him if he didn't speak Spanish. He already speaks English and Bengali, so picking up a third language shouldn't be THAT hard for him.

Why do some people make life so hard for themselves? Anyone care to bet at what point his frustration will get so intense that he actually follows my advice?
 
SDET said:
A friend of mine recently bought me lunch asking me how to access loose women because his divorce was recently finalized. He said it was because his wife and sister were always fighting. It was obvious that it was mostly because he was bored with his marriage. I mentioned before he did this that he should consider a fling with a younger woman. His reply was that his wife would never tolerate that. What did he have to lose? He's just as divorced now. There's a chance that she would have tolerated it. He traded a guaranteed loss for a possible win.

Regarding my current advice, I told him to 100% forget horsing around here in the USA. He will only waste his money AND walk away frustrated for his efforts. I gave him detailed information how to make the 10 hour road trip to Mexico and about SAFE venues where someone would help him if he didn't speak Spanish. He already speaks English and Bengali, so picking up a third language shouldn't be THAT hard for him.

Why do some people make life so hard for themselves? Anyone care to bet at what point his frustration will get so intense that he actually follows my advice?
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I mean if he didn't want to be in the marriage then he didn't want to be in the marriage. Sucks but that's how it is.

I wouldn't necessarily recommend Mexico as his first stop though, especially if he doesn't speak Spanish. Maybe somewhere tamer, like the Caribbean.
 
SDET said:
A friend of mine recently bought me lunch asking me how to access loose women because his divorce was recently finalized. He said it was because his wife and sister were always fighting. It was obvious that it was mostly because he was bored with his marriage. I mentioned before he did this that he should consider a fling with a younger woman. His reply was that his wife would never tolerate that. What did he have to lose? He's just as divorced now. There's a chance that she would have tolerated it. He traded a guaranteed loss for a possible win. Regarding my current advice, I told him to 100% forget horsing around here in the USA. He will only waste his money AND walk away frustrated for his efforts. I gave him detailed information how to make the 10 hour road trip to Mexico and about SAFE venues where someone would help him if he didn't speak Spanish. He already speaks English and Bengali, so picking up a third language shouldn't be THAT hard for him. Why do some people make life so hard for themselves? Anyone care to bet at what point his frustration will get so intense that he actually follows my advice?
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Oh where to start....

If you believe your own BS then there is ZERO (0) chance an Americanized woman would tolerate any such thing... so why say there a chance???? More like forlorn hope at best if we believe you and your crap....

Second I'll wager a shiny nickel he won't reach the level of desperation and loathing you seem to have sunk to... and pity if he does.... :peace
 
SDET said:
A friend of mine recently bought me lunch asking me how to access loose women because his divorce was recently finalized. He said it was because his wife and sister were always fighting. It was obvious that it was mostly because he was bored with his marriage. I mentioned before he did this that he should consider a fling with a younger woman. His reply was that his wife would never tolerate that. What did he have to lose? He's just as divorced now. There's a chance that she would have tolerated it. He traded a guaranteed loss for a possible win.

Regarding my current advice, I told him to 100% forget horsing around here in the USA. He will only waste his money AND walk away frustrated for his efforts. I gave him detailed information how to make the 10 hour road trip to Mexico and about SAFE venues where someone would help him if he didn't speak Spanish. He already speaks English and Bengali, so picking up a third language shouldn't be THAT hard for him.

Why do some people make life so hard for themselves? Anyone care to bet at what point his frustration will get so intense that he actually follows my advice?
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Sure, he just gives you his side. I wonder what the wife has to say about that so called boring marriage. Hopefully she finds herself a real man.
 
americanwoman said:
Sure, he just gives you his side. I wonder what the wife has to say about that so called boring marriage. Hopefully she finds herself a real man.
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You see, that's how one becomes a good problem solver: Not letting "sides" be a distraction to the problem at hand.

However, since that side seems to interest you, I will give it a whirl.

She's now a middle aged Muslim single mother who likely doesn't want a revolving door of men to be witnessed by her daughter. That's my guess.
 
SDET said:
A friend of mine recently bought me lunch asking me how to access loose women because his divorce was recently finalized. He said it was because his wife and sister were always fighting. It was obvious that it was mostly because he was bored with his marriage. I mentioned before he did this that he should consider a fling with a younger woman. His reply was that his wife would never tolerate that. What did he have to lose? He's just as divorced now. There's a chance that she would have tolerated it. He traded a guaranteed loss for a possible win.

Regarding my current advice, I told him to 100% forget horsing around here in the USA. He will only waste his money AND walk away frustrated for his efforts. I gave him detailed information how to make the 10 hour road trip to Mexico and about SAFE venues where someone would help him if he didn't speak Spanish. He already speaks English and Bengali, so picking up a third language shouldn't be THAT hard for him.

Why do some people make life so hard for themselves? Anyone care to bet at what point his frustration will get so intense that he actually follows my advice?
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LMAO fake story
 
SDET said:
1.)What part do you think he was lying about?
2.) It seems believable enough to me.
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1.) all of it
2.) thats meaningless
 
SDET said:
A friend of mine recently bought me lunch asking me how to access loose women because his divorce was recently finalized. He said it was because his wife and sister were always fighting. It was obvious that it was mostly because he was bored with his marriage. I mentioned before he did this that he should consider a fling with a younger woman. His reply was that his wife would never tolerate that. What did he have to lose? He's just as divorced now. There's a chance that she would have tolerated it. He traded a guaranteed loss for a possible win.

Regarding my current advice, I told him to 100% forget horsing around here in the USA. He will only waste his money AND walk away frustrated for his efforts. I gave him detailed information how to make the 10 hour road trip to Mexico and about SAFE venues where someone would help him if he didn't speak Spanish. He already speaks English and Bengali, so picking up a third language shouldn't be THAT hard for him.

Why do some people make life so hard for themselves? Anyone care to bet at what point his frustration will get so intense that he actually follows my advice?
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AGENT J said:
1.) all of it
2.) thats meaningless
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I still got a free lunch out of the deal and the chance to analyze an interesting problem.
 
AGENT J said:
#fake story
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I'm sorry to hear that your life is so meaningless that you feel the need to call random people liars with no evidence. Question somebody getting lunch bought for them? Really? Nonetheless, it useful to know such extremely petty people exist. It means not being blindsided if I have the misfortune to cross paths with such as person.
 
SDET said:
I'm sorry to hear that your life is so meaningless that you feel the need to call random people liars with no evidence. Question somebody getting lunch bought for them? Really? Nonetheless, it useful to know such extremely petty people exist. It means not being blindsided if I have the misfortune to cross paths with such as person.
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LMAO another fake story, i never called you a liar. Man this keep getting better and better!
 
americanwoman said:
Sure, he just gives you his side. I wonder what the wife has to say about that so called boring marriage. Hopefully she finds herself a real man.
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You reply got me thinking. Is it really that easy for a woman in the USA to get a man that she considers desirable? You almost make it sound as easy as going to the supermarket and buying a gallon of milk. She's Muslim, early 40s, a single mother now, has a decent IT job and is physically fit. If she were interested, what are her prospects?

From a man's perspective, it seems like trying to find a suitable woman in the USA makes about as much sense as looking for a good job in Mississippi. The US sexual marketplace seems to be a woman's market in the extreme.
 
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americanwoman said:
Sure, he just gives you his side. I wonder what the wife has to say about that so called boring marriage.
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But that's not how it works though. If one party wants to divorce, for any reason at all, then divorce it is.

No fault divorce and all that.
 
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