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The Bad Boy Syndrome

I don't know. My mom admitted she was attracted to the bad boys

my mom told me she likes a guy who works alot

funny how women think they are so unique when their behavior is predictable and layed out in a million psychology books

every woman is going through the same life pattern.

get genetics from a alpha, then marry a beta to raise them.

the only reason some deviate from this is because they try to get it but fail
 
Straight women like men period. Take the sexual factor out: Regardless of your gender or sexual orientation, who would you rather spend a Friday night with? Someone who is confident, exciting, fearless, and always shows you a good time, or someone predictable, boring, easily daunted, and needy?

me and my first GF were very boring. we liked it lol. we were two scared people who found each other. and we could hide from the world together

our fears pushed us closer together. and as soon as our fears diminished we dumped each other. when really we could have just grown together.
 
modern women have created new predicaments for themselves with all the gender equality

in the old days they could marry at 20 to a man with a good job

now half the good jobs are taken by women so half the men dont have good jobs

and a women is 30 by the time she gets out of school and is ready to get married. her looks are going and shes in debt

half the men dont have good jobs and the other half are having fun sexing up all the young girly bimbos forever and never marrying

so she gives up on kids and becomes a feminist instead lol

spends her nights watching male centered porn and hating the house wife
I've seen this play out in my own family. My two older sons got married out of college to 20 something girls, and started families. My youngest son, now 35, has no interest in getting married. He has serial relationships. usually younger women. Seeing one girl for a year or two, get bored, move on to another girl. Rinse and repeat. He is stable, nice looking and makes six figures. He says marriage is a quaint, old idea. He has no interest in 30 something women. He calls them "cougar wannabes". Maybe when he's in his late 40's he'll date some 30 somethings. Standards do change as you age. My wife and I have been married for over 50 years, so he's seen what a good marriage looks like. He just isn't interested.
 
my mom told me she likes a guy who works alot

funny how women think they are so unique when their behavior is predictable and layed out in a million psychology books

every woman is going through the same life pattern.

get genetics from a alpha, then marry a beta to raise them.

the only reason some deviate from this is because they try to get it but fail

Do you think the male "life pattern" is any different? How many unattractive women do you date?
 
I've seen this play out in my own family. My two older sons got married out of college to 20 something girls, and started families. My youngest son, now 35, has no interest in getting married. He has serial relationships. usually younger women. Seeing one girl for a year or two, get bored, move on to another girl. Rinse and repeat. He is stable, nice looking and makes six figures. He says marriage is a quaint, old idea. He has no interest in 30 something women. He calls them "cougar wannabes". Maybe when he's in his late 40's he'll date some 30 somethings. Standards do change as you age. My wife and I have been married for over 50 years, so he's seen what a good marriage looks like. He just isn't interested.

romantic love fades after a few years and turns into comfort love

many relationships dont survive that transition

romantic love and sex with a young girl is addictive

i ended up giving up on women early because the relationships were toxic since we were both immature and had mental health issues and low self esteem problems etc...

alot of the girls would call the cops on me as the relationship was nearing the end. as a way to get revenge on me. when i was in jail at 26 i decided not to have anymore relationships lol
 
romantic love fades after a few years and turns into comfort love

many relationships dont survive that transition

romantic love and sex with a young girl is addictive

i ended up giving up on women early because the relationships were toxic since we were both immature and had mental health issues and low self esteem problems etc...

alot of the girls would call the cops on me as the relationship was nearing the end. as a way to get revenge on me. when i was in jail at 26 i decided not to have anymore relationships lol
Not much of that kind of drama around here. I wouldn't know exactly how to characterize love after 50 years, but I still like seeing her naked. Of course, at 70+ years myself the standards are lower. Most naked women look good to me now. :)
 
Not much of that kind of drama around here. I wouldn't know exactly how to characterize love after 50 years, but I still like seeing her naked. Of course, at 70+ years myself the standards are lower. Most naked women look good to me now. :)

the young are always better looking. because their skin is better.

the skin is the biggest giveaway of age. be nice if he found a cure for that. so old poelpe could have younger skin longer

maybe when u were 80 you only looked 40. be nice.

but then mind you the young poeple would appear more dumb. because the older and wiser would look young still, so it would make the young look dumber in comparison. since their mind hasnt had the time to devleop
 
the young are always better looking. because their skin is better.

the skin is the biggest giveaway of age. be nice if he found a cure for that. so old poelpe could have younger skin longer

maybe when u were 80 you only looked 40. be nice.

but then mind you the young poeple would appear more dumb. because the older and wiser would look young still, so it would make the young look dumber in comparison. since their mind hasnt had the time to devleop
Intelligence is sexy, but lack of it's not a deal breaker if the woman looks good. :) Some older women look damn good, even if they are a little wrinkly. And the longer my dry spell, the less picky I get.
 
unless the dry spell goes too long

then u throw poop at girls and hump a tree
Don't think I'd ever throw poop at girls. well.....unless it was part of the foreplay.... :)
and good thing, then, I never had that long a dry spell !! :)
 
Don't think I'd ever throw poop at girls. well.....unless it was part of the foreplay.... :)
and good thing, then, I never had that long a dry spell !! :)

good thing about a long dry spell though is you start to forget about girls

then u can become free of all that dating stuff and focus on other stuff

i was free of girls for the first 18 years, then i had girl fever for like 10yrs, now im back to freedom again

mind you when i was pre-18 i had alot of crushes torturing me. so im probobly more free now
 
good thing about a long dry spell though is you start to forget about girls

then u can become free of all that dating stuff and focus on other stuff

i was free of girls for the first 18 years, then i had girl fever for like 10yrs, now im back to freedom again

mind you when i was pre-18 i had alot of crushes torturing me. so im probobly more free now
generally, a long dry spell has the opposite effect on me; I think about girls more than ever.

and what's this "other stuff" you focus on that's better than girls?

one good thing about marriage; I might not be gettin' it every night, but I'm sleepin' right next to it.
 
seriously though

being alone

doing guy thnigs

etc...

advantages and disadvantages
seriously though....being alone, doing guy things, just led me to masterbation. I like having a girl around. Sometimes it does seem more trouble than it's worth, but there you have it.....
 
generally, a long dry spell has the opposite effect on me; I think about girls more than ever.

and what's this "other stuff" you focus on that's better than girls?

one good thing about marriage; I might not be gettin' it every night, but I'm sleepin' right next to it.
Are you thinking about women or are you thinking about sex? These days you can have all the sex you want without being in a relationship.

There's a lot more to a marriage than just a sex. And it's only a good thing if you pick the right person, otherwise it's being right next to you can be a living nightmare.

I would much prefer to be alone than with someone I can barely tolerate.
 
seriously though....being alone, doing guy things, just led me to masterbation. I like having a girl around. Sometimes it does seem more trouble than it's worth, but there you have it.....

having anyone around is constant compromise
 
The Bad Boy Syndrome

Thread inspired by Wan's thread found here:

The Nice Guy Syndrome
Why are women drawn to "bad boys" -- the rebels and heels and assholes of the masculine persuasion?

Or is this just a stereotype?
Generally, I would say it tends to spawn from uniqueness. So many women get used to guys all trying to tell them what they want to hear. For many women, it gets hard to differentiate and for many, it comes across as dishonest.
They hear the same sales pitch over and over and they have a bad experience with some guys who didn't end up being who they pretended to be. The bad boy becomes refreshing. Sure he's kind of an asshole, but at least with him, you feel like you're getting honesty. This is the real him.
Furthermore, the fact that he's not trying to impress you is viewed as an indication that he is not impressed by you. Like playing hard to get, the fact that he doesn't chase you makes you want to prove that to him that you deserve to be chased.

Sadly this is also the same effect that Trump used to warp millions of idiots into voting for him as well. He is literally Negging the entire Republican party.

Usually, over time most women do eventually wake up to the reality that the bad boy is in fact the more manipulative shithead. Either he really just is a ****ing asshole who is full of himself and not worth anything long term or he's just playing you to make him chase you.
 
Seeking unstable partners is a control thing.
 
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