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Relationship dealbreakers

Lying and misrepresentation.

It is recipe for disaster and often is, even by some very surprising people claiming to be one thing and being anything but that.
 
justabubba said:
i'll just go with the presumption that being unable to fashion a sensible reply, your post instead opted to dodge the question with a phony excuse
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That is fine.

Of course you could always accept the truth. I just don't want to go through the headache of explaining it for the umpteenth time.

Either way, it is nothing to me. Heaven or hell is not determined for me by educating you.

Peace
 
SarahSun said:
A few date night details, but not all, lol. He asked me to wear my nicest dress and im glad i did. He got me home somewhere between 130am-2. It was like a dream. He knows how to make me feel so good. My brain tells me to date a few guys and i hope my brain is very strong because he makes my heart so very very weak.
You guys are so awesome for all your wonderful advice!!
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Dive in, enjoy! Don't get sucked in. ;)
 
noonereal said:
That is fine.

Of course you could always accept the truth. I just don't want to go through the headache of explaining it for the umpteenth time.

Either way, it is nothing to me. Heaven or hell is not determined for me by educating you.

Peace
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you are so right
just as your non response enables my belief you have nothing of value to share

pax
 
justabubba said:
you are so right
just as your non response enables my belief you have nothing of value to share

pax
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You know, if you really care about this, just go to Google Scholar.

peace
 
noonereal said:
You know, if you really care about this, just go to Google Scholar.

peace
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and if you really cared, you would have offered a response

at this point, my conclusion is that you are unable to fashion one that would not be embarrassing to you

which is my last statement to you in this thread unless you decide to provide a response to my earlier question

pax
 
justabubba said:
and if you really cared, you would have offered a response
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exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't care. Believe nonsense, it means nothing to me.

I answered you and gave you direction. I cannot give you intellectual curiosity as I have.

Peace.
 
CLAX1911 said:
Having to let things go was the hardest part for me.
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I can understand that. I admire people who can get mad but then just forget about it and forgive and forget.
 
Secret membership in ISIS.
Making cookies in the shape of her former boyfriends.
Owning a series of sweatshops in Dubuque, Iowa.
Watching and laughing at 2 Broke Girls.
Switching strangers’ socks from their left foot to right when they are asleep and in their own home.
Changing the colors in traffic lights to nothing but shades of blue.
Insisting she can drive two cars simultaneously and continually trying to do it.
Calling the trunk of the car the “second back seat” and making you sit there when there are too many groceries.
Wagering on pornography.
Demanding you pay for her classes as she studies dentistry for roosters.
Cheating on you with yourself because she thinks you look different in the morning.
Replacing your mouthwash with antifreeze.
Participating in online political forums.
Insisting she can speak hippo and causing both of you to be banned from every zoo in the area.
Thinking acetylene “is just as good as helium” in balloons at birthday parties.
I can’t speak for other men but these have been my experiences with women that I will no longer put up with.
 
The biggest one for me is a lack of respect. Without respect you don't have a relationship.

The second is game playing. The "you should know what I am thinking" stuff.

When they start that I shut down and walk away.
 
As a man, a dealbreaker, to me, is if whoever the woman I'm with (or about to make a move with) is not over a guy that she was with and/or been engaged/married to other men in the past. Ask me later if you're curious.
 
Herkamer63 said:
As a man, a dealbreaker, to me, is if whoever the woman I'm with (or about to make a move with) is not over a guy that she was with and/or been engaged/married to other men in the past. Ask me later if you're curious.
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What I get from your post is that you have given up on pursuing women other men find to be desirable
 
Josie said:
What have you experienced in your relationships or observing other people's relationships that you just couldn't deal with? What are some behaviors you wouldn't put up with from a significant other - things that would make you walk away or not even get the relationship started in the first place?

I could not and would not deal with any man who is easily angered. No thank you - next.
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Hey Babe, could you tell the FBI I was with you all night.... :whistle:
 
justabubba said:
What I get from your post is that you have given up on pursuing women other men find to be desirable
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Yes and no is the best answer I can give.

The 'yes' part is kind of like I described. I had an experience with a woman where she had been engaged to be married a few times. The first time was the one that she still hasn't got over, and it's not because it was the first guy to do it, either. The way she made it sound was that he was the total package: good looking, high paying job, an adventurer, basically her knight in shining armor, but at the same time a horrible person. She ALWAYS brought this man up and told about the terrible things he did, while at the same time brought up how good he was. And she made excuses for him. She just could not let him go. She liked the idea that HE painted himself as whenever he was good, and that's what she wanted. This may be a stretch, but I think she wanted him back because she wanted to give him a second chance. I could be wrong, but looking back on it now and the way she talked him up, it makes me wonder if she did. So for those women, I don't want to continue a relationship with them when they are continually reliving the past and wanting the men that treated them badly to come back into their lives. BTW, 2 things: the guy is now dead the last day we dated, and her sister told me that no one from the family liked the guy, so if that means anything to ya.

The 'no' part is I understand that there will be women that I might be interested in down the road that will be desired by other men. So it's not like I will never check out another woman ever again and it's not that I won't I like the ones that I find attractive. I also understand that there are good women out there that have been hurt by bad men and would like a guy to come along that they share good memories together. Right now, where I'm at in life, I'm just not looking because I've been hearing from other people who have had similar experiences, and I don't want to take a hit like that again for awhile. Plus, I've missed out on so much on life that I want to live it single for awhile, and if a woman comes along that I connect well with, great. But, for now, I'm happy with where I'm at today.
 
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