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    Re: Why do girls sometimes do this?

    Quote Originally Posted by Puigb View Post
    I agree. This has happened to me a few times, but I've learned my lesson for sure now. No more spending too much money on girls I'm just casually dating, as it could lead to me being kicked to the curb, with less money to boot.
    Keep in mind that, most likely, one day in the distant future when you meet the right woman for you, you will remember this girl, smile and quietly and privately thank her for ending the relationship
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    Re: Why do girls sometimes do this?

    Quote Originally Posted by ttwtt78640 View Post
    Because they can. The "it's not you, it's me" line just means that they got tired of you and have found the next Mr. Wonderful to spend their time with. People change some over time, often at different rates and in different directions than others. Just be glad that there were not children or joint assets involved.
    Yes - because they can.
    That is the only right answer.

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    Re: Why do girls sometimes do this?

    Quote Originally Posted by joko104 View Post
    Sounds like you were drowning her, wanting to consume every minute and every thought she has. The initial rush of romance ALWAYS fades. It appears you are very "clinging" and "needy" of constant attention. If someone got upset because I would not endlessly text back and forth I'd want to get away from that person REAL QUICK.

    Also, your comment on "being generous" indicated you think you can buy affection and devotion despite your denying it, and if the woman does not pay you back with 100% constant emotional loyalty you see it as a betrayal. She may have perceived this was your motive for spending on her.

    That you kept texting her long texts, after she was cutting back and giving short answers was you forcing her to pick you forever or dump you. She picked the latter and nearly all women would.

    Never believe the reason someone gives for dumping you. You were acting incredibly possessive and needy for a 6 week old relationship - and then increasingly pressing her over it. That'd kill it even if it wasn't already over.

    By your message, you've been thru this before. I suspect you always will too with the attitude you portray in your message. Apparently, from date one, you expect the woman to act like she's your 100% devoted wife attending to all your attention needs. Not to be insulting, but I'm on her side on this one.
    I dis-agree.

    There is a good old saying: "A decent question deserves a decent answer."

    To ignore a decent question from a friend and keep silent and "play dead" is just cowardly - and inhuman.

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    Re: Why do girls sometimes do this?

    It's not inhuman if you know the nature of the beast going in. I would sum it up like this: WANTING is one thing; NEEDING is a recipe for failure. The moment a man forgets that women are like buses, there's always another coming along, he's off in the weeds.

    Quote Originally Posted by Rumpel View Post
    I dis-agree.

    There is a good old saying: "A decent question deserves a decent answer."

    To ignore a decent question from a friend and keep silent and "play dead" is just cowardly - and inhuman.

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    Re: Why do girls sometimes do this?

    Why has this really bizarre thread been necro'd?
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    Re: Why do girls sometimes do this?

    Quote Originally Posted by Rumpel View Post
    Yes - because they can.
    That is the only right answer.
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