I think this is definitely interesting. Are you able to tell us the changes that you made about yourself that made you irresistible to women?
I'm not irresistible. It's just that even if I'm only attractive to small percentage of women...
there are a lot of women out there. Which means if 1 woman shoots me down, I can try it on with another. If 10 women shoot me down, I can
still try it on with another. If 100 women shoot me down, it's probably closing time-- but there's seven nights in a week.
It also means that
I can be picky. One thing the manosphere diaperbabies have right is that human courtship is an ecological game: as soon as a woman realizes
I might say no to her, I'm worth several times as much. If she sees that I might go home with another woman, I'm several times more interesting. When she sees I'm not begging for her approval, then she thinks that
when I am nice to her, it actually means something more than the fact that I'm trying to get into her pants.
Oh, I also learned to admit when I was trying to get into a woman's pants. A lot of guys would think that's a turn off... but it's the exact kind of Asshole move they're always complaining about working for other guys. It's called
honesty, and chicks dig it. Plus, there are ways of openly, nakedly trying to seduce a woman while still showing her the utmost gentlemanly respect. They're really separate issues.
Once I realized that I had to
bring something to the table, I had to take stock of myself. I've got no job, I've got a middlin' face, I'm obese, I'm crippled, I'm crazy... But I am
genuinely kind, which means more than superficial courtesies-- I provide emotional support, I can give a respectable degree of advice in a lot of areas, and one of the symptoms of my laundry list of psychiatric disorders is that I am
superhumanly passionate which is sometimes terrifying but usually incredibly hot. (For women who give half a damn about whatever I'm passionate about.)
But honestly? Most of it isn't about developing new skills. It's about knowing what I've already got, finding women who are looking
for that, and then
treating them like people. So much of the idiotic bull**** coming from the manosphere is based on the fact that they are simply ideologically incapable of recognizing that
women are people and that they have more in common with men than not. They're human beings with human brains and human needs, so it's really not that hard to figure out what they want if you're not assuming they're these bizarre alien creatures.