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    Question for the guys

    Let's imagine that you had sex with a "woman", and "she" only told you about her trans-ness after you had slept with her. What would your reaction be?

    Let's be honest.

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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by Wan View Post
    Let's imagine that you had sex with a "woman", and "she" only told you about her trans-ness after you had slept with her. What would your reaction be?

    Let's be honest.
    Is this coming from personal experience?
    Is it just me or is it getting crazier out there?”

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    Re: Question for the guys

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    Is this coming from personal experience?
    No. I am a cis-woman.

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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by Wan View Post
    Let's imagine that you had sex with a "woman", and "she" only told you about her trans-ness after you had slept with her. What would your reaction be?

    Let's be honest.
    I am assuming that she is post op, otherwise I would have found out earlier.

    Personally, I would be more upset over finding it out after than before. Being MtF isn't a deal breaker. I've known a couple whom I never would have guessed if they hadn't told me. I even dated one once briefly before she had to move away.

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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by Wan View Post
    Let's imagine that you had sex with a "woman", and "she" only told you about her trans-ness after you had slept with her. What would your reaction be?

    Let's be honest.
    My wife was sexually abused as a kid for years, her primary abuser brother killed himself a few years after he was done....

    She told me everything before we decided to get married, which was 6 months after we met, which felt like the right time.

    I spect that would hold here as well, dont string people along for years without coming clean, and dont agree to get married without coming clean.
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    Upset I was deceived. Grossed out. And a bit impressed that the procedure is so good that was fooled.
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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by Wan View Post
    Let's imagine that you had sex with a "woman", and "she" only told you about her trans-ness after you had slept with her. What would your reaction be?

    Let's be honest.
    Intrigued, especially if I didn't recognize it during the act. Also mildly irked that I wasn't informed prior, because with a new partner, you should always openly communicate before getting it on.
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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by Skeptic Bob View Post
    Upset I was deceived. Grossed out. And a bit impressed that the procedure is so good that was fooled.

    Yep, that would be it.

    Then you would have to have a long think....

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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by Wan View Post
    Let's imagine that you had sex with a "woman", and "she" only told you about her trans-ness after you had slept with her. What would your reaction be?
    Massive respect for the skills of her surgeon! If you can get to that point without noticing, I don’t see why it should be an issue in itself.

    Of course, I wouldn’t be having a sexual relationship with someone I wasn’t intimate enough with to know that kind of thing already so would be disappointed they kept the secret for so long but not specifically because of the nature of that secret in this example.

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    Re: Question for the guys

    Nearly happened to me when I was in Thailand. They have many kotoeys there and they look so close to actual women its hard to tell sometimes. I got into a taxi with one until I realized she wasnt a she so I got back out.

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