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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by Korimyr the Rat View Post
    I'm not transphobic, but I can be pretty phallophobic if it catches me off-guard.

    Out of sight, out of mind.
    So since there was no phallus like organ when you slept with the hypothetical in question, how does the phallophobia come into play?

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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by Wan View Post
    Let's imagine that you had sex with a "woman", and "she" only told you about her trans-ness after you had slept with her. What would your reaction be?

    Let's be honest.
    Surprise.

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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by maquiscat View Post
    So since there was no phallus like organ when you slept with the hypothetical in question, how does the phallophobia come into play?
    It wouldn't come into play, at all. If she gets around to telling me, it'll be good to know.
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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by Wan View Post
    No. I am a cis-woman.
    That is just "a woman"...

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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by Korimyr the Rat View Post
    It wouldn't come into play, at all. If she gets around to telling me, it'll be good to know.
    So basically pre op could be a problem but post op is fine?

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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by maquiscat View Post
    So basically pre op could be a problem but post op is fine?
    Yeah. This isn't a matter of gender or orientation, it's a matter of trauma.

    I mean... as long as we both understand that her skirt stays on, pre-op isn't really a problem either. In the short term, at least.
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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by Wan View Post
    Let's imagine that you had sex with a "woman", and "she" only told you about her trans-ness after you had slept with her. What would your reaction be?

    Let's be honest.
    Way back when I picked up women it would have been exactly the same: "No, you can't move in with me. Thanks, but it's time for you to go now."

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    What would upset me is if she told me she's married after-the-fact. That kind of trouble no man needs.

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    Re: Question for the guys

    Quote Originally Posted by Wan View Post
    Let's imagine that you had sex with a "woman", and "she" only told you about her trans-ness after you had slept with her. What would your reaction be?

    Let's be honest.
    I would be infuriated. I would feel intensely personally violated - date-raped, almost. It would not only immediately end that relationship, it would likely end the relationship with any mutual acquaintances who had known but not told me.

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