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I'm 32 years old. I have never been in a relationship with another woman my whole life. Not that I have never tried asking a woman out, but rather I have bad luck or just have a bad taste in women. My more recent attempts as an adult prove very difficult.
The first girl I asked out turned out to be a psycho. She accused me of being a stalker when that never happened nor was there any signs of it. Apparently, she did the same to a bunch of other guys as well, and she had a bunch skeletons in her closet. Anyway, months passed and I found another girl I knew, and it was one of those "I don't know/maybe" ones. In the end nothing happened and that was the trend for the next 7-8 years then went on a hiatus from asking anyone.
I met girl almost 2 years ago. We're very close in age, she's in the health field like me, and we had some things in common. I really liked her. I always talked to her, but I found out she liked dating older guys and was a big flirt. So, needless to say, I felt like I got played and that was that with her. Over the past several years, I only had 1 "no" answer only because the girl had a boyfriend, and if I would have acted, there were 1 of 2 women I could have started something with and been very happy taking home to the family. I was an idiot, though, and let those opportunities slip by.
Anyway, the main reason is I'm so reluctant is because I've been hung out to dry or have been led on so many times that I've all but given up. The ones I seem to attract are free loading, opportunist single mothers and psychotic women, and I have no desire for either one, no matter what they look like or what they do. Call me shallow, but I've seen what those 2 groups do. I've tried dating sites and they're not doing it for me. I'm practically at my wits end. If anyone out there feels and/or gone through similar things, post up on here. I don't mean to sound like a downer, but it just seems like all the good women are being taken and guys like me are getting stuck with the left overs, despite our best efforts. I feel like it's getting worse, too. I hope I'm wrong.
The first girl I asked out turned out to be a psycho. She accused me of being a stalker when that never happened nor was there any signs of it. Apparently, she did the same to a bunch of other guys as well, and she had a bunch skeletons in her closet. Anyway, months passed and I found another girl I knew, and it was one of those "I don't know/maybe" ones. In the end nothing happened and that was the trend for the next 7-8 years then went on a hiatus from asking anyone.
I met girl almost 2 years ago. We're very close in age, she's in the health field like me, and we had some things in common. I really liked her. I always talked to her, but I found out she liked dating older guys and was a big flirt. So, needless to say, I felt like I got played and that was that with her. Over the past several years, I only had 1 "no" answer only because the girl had a boyfriend, and if I would have acted, there were 1 of 2 women I could have started something with and been very happy taking home to the family. I was an idiot, though, and let those opportunities slip by.
Anyway, the main reason is I'm so reluctant is because I've been hung out to dry or have been led on so many times that I've all but given up. The ones I seem to attract are free loading, opportunist single mothers and psychotic women, and I have no desire for either one, no matter what they look like or what they do. Call me shallow, but I've seen what those 2 groups do. I've tried dating sites and they're not doing it for me. I'm practically at my wits end. If anyone out there feels and/or gone through similar things, post up on here. I don't mean to sound like a downer, but it just seems like all the good women are being taken and guys like me are getting stuck with the left overs, despite our best efforts. I feel like it's getting worse, too. I hope I'm wrong.