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Friends With Benefits.

Sugar Daddy/Sugar Momma


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Well, I'm not a cheatin' kinda guy but if I was in another position, I see no harm in in.

Except, looking around, I can't think of any of my lady friends I really want to see naked. They would probably say the same thing about me.

My nookie days are over.
My pilot light is out.
What used to be my sex appeal is now my water spout. ** Unknown

Weird thing is, I get as much, if not more, personal gratification just cuddling with my wife, of so many years, than I did in my wild-oats years. Just holding her hand lights my candle.

We have been together a long, long time. And she is so good to me. I would never break her heart. Never.

 
Captain America said:
Well, I'm not a cheatin' kinda guy but if I was in another position, I see no harm in in.

Except, looking around, I can't think of any of my lady friends I really want to see naked. They would probably say the same thing about me.

My nookie days are over.
My pilot light is out.
What used to be my sex appeal is now my water spout. ** Unknown

Weird thing is, I get as much, if not more, personal gratification just cuddling with my wife, of so many years, than I did in my wild-oats years. Just holding her hand lights my candle.

We have been together a long, long time. And she is so good to me. I would never break her heart. Never.

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While this is a beautiful sentiment, Penthouse regrets to inform you that they will not be publishing this submission.
 
Winston said:
Yeah, no problems here.

No weird nights at parties or bars where sex was implied but one person wasn't into it. So, the other gets salty.

Just no strings attached couple times a month kind of thing.

Maybe I got lucky cause friends with benefits can go horribly wrong.
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Not if you don't care and always keep a spare around.

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Winston said:
Sugar Daddy/Sugar Momma


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I tried being a sugar daddy but I'm so cheap I just end up being splenda

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Captain America said:
Well, I'm not a cheatin' kinda guy but if I was in another position, I see no harm in in.

Except, looking around, I can't think of any of my lady friends I really want to see naked. They would probably say the same thing about me.

My nookie days are over.
My pilot light is out.
What used to be my sex appeal is now my water spout. ** Unknown

Weird thing is, I get as much, if not more, personal gratification just cuddling with my wife, of so many years, than I did in my wild-oats years. Just holding her hand lights my candle.

We have been together a long, long time. And she is so good to me. I would never break her heart. Never.

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I have reached the age where I have no use for ***** and the feelings are mutual.:mrgreen:
 
Captain America said:
Well, I'm not a cheatin' kinda guy but if I was in another position, I see no harm in in.

Except, looking around, I can't think of any of my lady friends I really want to see naked. They would probably say the same thing about me.

My nookie days are over.
My pilot light is out.
What used to be my sex appeal is now my water spout. ** Unknown

Weird thing is, I get as much, if not more, personal gratification just cuddling with my wife, of so many years, than I did in my wild-oats years. Just holding her hand lights my candle.

We have been together a long, long time. And she is so good to me. I would never break her heart. Never.

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Is she looking over hour shoulder reading what you post (joke)

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trouble13 said:
I tried being a sugar daddy but I'm so cheap I just end up being splenda

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Lmao ;).



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X Factor said:
Hey Mr. I. How are you?
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Been alright fam. Working, podcasting, and STILL waiting on my active duty orders (recruiter said it was gonna take six months, I know, but damn!). Other than that last part, things are going well. Am exercising and hanging with friends as well.

How've you been?
 
Mr. Invisible said:
Been alright fam. Working, podcasting, and STILL waiting on my active duty orders (recruiter said it was gonna take six months, I know, but damn!). Other than that last part, things are going well. Am exercising and hanging with friends as well.

How've you been?
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Much respect for serving, my friend. Doing good too. Working, becoming quite the pigeon rescuer, hanging with the dog and still spending too much time here.
 
TheGoverness said:
I got into this really awkward situation today. So this guy that I talk to occasionally, hit me up this morning and wanted get brunch, and he wanted someone to come with him. I was down, because I was hungry, and I had no one else to go with. But after we ate and left the dining hall, we were just walking back together, and he kinda just asked me if I was interested in “being together”, but not like in a relationship-type way, but in like a just-for-the-sex kind of way.

This is a first for me, because I’ve never been asked to be anyone’s “buddy” before. Not like that. So yeah, it was pretty ****ing awkward. My face was burning in embarrassment.

But he was very forward and upfront about it. He said he liked me, and he just wanted to have sex with me; that’s it. I think the reason he decided to ask me of all people, is because I’m not really in his circle of friends. And he wanted to keep it on the DL.

But obviously, I had to turn him down. But I was polite about it, though. I shot him down as nicely as I could. I’m just not into him (or guys), and I’m already in a relationship. I am faithful to my girlfriend, So even if a girl had asked me, I’d have said the same thing. Not about to go and cheat. Plus, I am not into casual sex. Lots of people are, and so are a few of my friends. That’s totally fine. Not trying to diss anyone that enjoys that kind of relationship. But when it comes to my own personal feelings about it, I don’t feel very comfortable with the idea of giving myself over to someone so easily. I’m going to need at least some kind of emotional connection, before I ever decide to go all the way with somebody.

I could tell he was a bit disappointed, but I think he took the rejection pretty well. Oh well. He's a pretty handsome guy, so I'm sure he will find some girl to do that with. He’ll be fine.
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Yeah that happens.
Ive done that about 5 times and luckily with no problems. 3 of them I'm still VERY close too and great friends with even though the benefits have ended. 1 the benefits are still there anytime we are single, but otherwise they are not. She is one of my closest friends and again luckily it works out.

Now that being said I cant say ive been offered by less than an already friend .. . i mean offered sex yes but flat out offered friends with benefits i dont think so. . .

The most important part with anything like that is honesty trust and communication. I couldn't with a stranger or acquaintance there would have to be a little something there.
 
The college experience for women sure is different than the college experience for guys.
 
Skeptic Bob said:
The college experience for women sure is different than the college experience for guys.
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It all sounds so priggish. Sort of pre sexual revolution and all that.
 
Winston said:
I Love those kind of people.

I was fortunate enough to have a girl proposition the same thing to me. No love all physical. We carried on like that for a year or so. And when it was done we just moved on without any heartache.

I admire the honesty. I had a tough time reconciling that I am flesh and blood with needs in that way. And a lot of people are way too embarrassed about their sexuality to broach the subject.
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Isn't that, like, every guy's dream? :lol:
 
radcen said:
Isn't that, like, every guy's dream? :lol:
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I was pretty blown away by the proposition.

the conversation involved the phrase "booty call". And I was like, "sure, we can give that a shot."
 
AGENT J said:
Yeah that happens.
Ive done that about 5 times and luckily with no problems. 3 of them I'm still VERY close too and great friends with even though the benefits have ended. 1 the benefits are still there anytime we are single, but otherwise they are not. She is one of my closest friends and again luckily it works out.

Now that being said I cant say ive been offered by less than an already friend .. . i mean offered sex yes but flat out offered friends with benefits i dont think so. . .

The most important part with anything like that is honesty trust and communication. I couldn't with a stranger or acquaintance there would have to be a little something there.
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Yeah, that's understandable. I couldn't do that either, for reasons I mentioned in the OP.

Plus, even if I was willing to do something like this, I think it'd be hard for me to not get seriously attached to someone that I'm constantly having sex with.
 
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