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TheGoverness

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Jeezus. Awkward situations always seem to creep up on me at the worst times.

So there's this guy that lives in my dorm (It's co-ed FYI). And we just so happen to have a Psychology class together on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so we sit together in that class, as he's the only one that I know in the giant lecture room. He's a pretty okay dude to have a conversation with. And last week he brought me along to hang out with his friends a few times when I was bored and had nothing to do. I thought we could be like good friends and study partners. But I must have been giving out the wrong signals, because today, out of ****ing nowhere, he kisses me. I've only known this guy for a little over a week, and he kisses me. I was caught completely off-guard. Did not expect him to do that to me at all. Of course, I shoved him away. I felt more surprised in that moment than angry, at least initially. But I was just like WTF are you doing, and I told him that I didn't like him that way, and that I already had a girlfriend. And he quickly tried to apologize, but I told him to **** off and stormed off. Anger probably wasn't the best tool to handle that situation, but I kinda lost it.

Now he's been texting me all afternoon still trying to apologize for what he did, but I've been avoiding talking to him. I'm not ready to forgive him; I'm still angry about it. This has pretty much ****ed up my whole day; I can't get it out of my head. I've been in situations before where guys have tried to ask me out, and I politely rejected them (although it still hurt me inside to do so). And I had one guy try to kiss me before in high school, but at least I had known the guy for a good while beforehand, and I saw it coming.


Has anyone else been in this kind of awkward situation? Where someone has tried to kiss them out-of-the-blue?
 
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TheGoverness said:
Jeezus. Awkward situations always seem to creep up on me at the worst times.

So there's this guy that lives in my dorm (It's co-ed FYI). And we just so happen to have a Psychology class together on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so we sit together in that class, as he's the only one that I know in the giant lecture room. He's a pretty okay dude to have a conversation with. And last week he brought me along to hang out with his friends a few times when I was bored and had nothing to do. I thought we could be like good friends and study partners. But I must have been giving out the wrong signals, because today, out of ****ing nowhere, he kisses me. I've only known this guy for a little over a week, and he kisses me. I was caught completely off-guard. Did not expect him to do that to me at all. Of course, I shoved him away. I felt more surprised in that moment than angry, at least initially. But I was just like WTF are you doing, and I told him that I didn't like him that way, and that I already had a girlfriend. And he quickly tried to apologize, but I told him to **** off and stormed off.

Now he's been texting me all afternoon still trying to apologize for what he did, but I've been avoiding talking to him. I'm not ready to forgive him; I'm still angry about it. This has pretty much ****ed up my whole day; I can't get it out of my head. I've been in situations before where guys have tried to ask me out, and I politely rejected them (although it still hurt me inside to do so). And I had one guy try to kiss me before in high school, but at least I had known the guy for a good while beforehand, and I saw it coming.


Has anyone else been in this kind of awkward situation? Where someone has tried to kiss them out-of-the-blue?
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You did it that well.....now let him stew for a week.

He likely will dislike you after that but Oh Well.
 
TheGoverness said:
Jeezus. Awkward situations always seem to creep up on me at the worst times.

So there's this guy that lives in my dorm (It's co-ed FYI). And we just so happen to have a Psychology class together on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so we sit together in that class, as he's the only one that I know in the giant lecture room. He's a pretty okay dude to have a conversation with. And last week he brought me along to hang out with his friends a few times when I was bored and had nothing to do. I thought we could be like good friends and study partners. But I must have been giving out the wrong signals, because today, out of ****ing nowhere, he kisses me. I've only known this guy for a little over a week, and he kisses me. I was caught completely off-guard. Did not expect him to do that to me at all. Of course, I shoved him away. I felt more surprised in that moment than angry, at least initially. But I was just like WTF are you doing, and I told him that I didn't like him that way, and that I already had a girlfriend. And he quickly tried to apologize, but I told him to **** off and stormed off. Anger probably wasn't the best tool to handle that situation, but I kinda lost it.

Now he's been texting me all afternoon still trying to apologize for what he did, but I've been avoiding talking to him. I'm not ready to forgive him; I'm still angry about it. This has pretty much ****ed up my whole day; I can't get it out of my head. I've been in situations before where guys have tried to ask me out, and I politely rejected them (although it still hurt me inside to do so). And I had one guy try to kiss me before in high school, but at least I had known the guy for a good while beforehand, and I saw it coming.


Has anyone else been in this kind of awkward situation? Where someone has tried to kiss them out-of-the-blue?
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Was he aware you are gay? I would say not
needless to say he is apologizing for stepping into your space
Lastly- you are in college- university- and gays are a minority-how could he know that you are gay?
Did you announce it? i doubt that

So maybe he read something wrong, but if he did not know?????
 
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Jeezus. Awkward situations always seem to creep up on me at the worst times.

So there's this guy that lives in my dorm (It's co-ed FYI). And we just so happen to have a Psychology class together on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so we sit together in that class, as he's the only one that I know in the giant lecture room. He's a pretty okay dude to have a conversation with. And last week he brought me along to hang out with his friends a few times when I was bored and had nothing to do. I thought we could be like good friends and study partners. But I must have been giving out the wrong signals, because today, out of ****ing nowhere, he kisses me. I've only known this guy for a little over a week, and he kisses me. I was caught completely off-guard. Did not expect him to do that to me at all. Of course, I shoved him away. I felt more surprised in that moment than angry, at least initially. But I was just like WTF are you doing, and I told him that I didn't like him that way, and that I already had a girlfriend. And he quickly tried to apologize, but I told him to **** off and stormed off. Anger probably wasn't the best tool to handle that situation, but I kinda lost it.

Now he's been texting me all afternoon still trying to apologize for what he did, but I've been avoiding talking to him. I'm not ready to forgive him; I'm still angry about it. This has pretty much ****ed up my whole day; I can't get it out of my head. I've been in situations before where guys have tried to ask me out, and I politely rejected them (although it still hurt me inside to do so). And I had one guy try to kiss me before in high school, but at least I had known the guy for a good while beforehand, and I saw it coming.


Has anyone else been in this kind of awkward situation? Where someone has tried to kiss them out-of-the-blue?
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He's young and probably misunderstood the signals.

Explain things to him and move on.
 
TheGoverness said:
Jeezus. Awkward situations always seem to creep up on me at the worst times.

So there's this guy that lives in my dorm (It's co-ed FYI). And we just so happen to have a Psychology class together on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so we sit together in that class, as he's the only one that I know in the giant lecture room. He's a pretty okay dude to have a conversation with. And last week he brought me along to hang out with his friends a few times when I was bored and had nothing to do. I thought we could be like good friends and study partners. But I must have been giving out the wrong signals, because today, out of ****ing nowhere, he kisses me. I've only known this guy for a little over a week, and he kisses me. I was caught completely off-guard. Did not expect him to do that to me at all. Of course, I shoved him away. I felt more surprised in that moment than angry, at least initially. But I was just like WTF are you doing, and I told him that I didn't like him that way, and that I already had a girlfriend. And he quickly tried to apologize, but I told him to **** off and stormed off. Anger probably wasn't the best tool to handle that situation, but I kinda lost it.

Now he's been texting me all afternoon still trying to apologize for what he did, but I've been avoiding talking to him. I'm not ready to forgive him; I'm still angry about it. This has pretty much ****ed up my whole day; I can't get it out of my head. I've been in situations before where guys have tried to ask me out, and I politely rejected them (although it still hurt me inside to do so). And I had one guy try to kiss me before in high school, but at least I had known the guy for a good while beforehand, and I saw it coming.


Has anyone else been in this kind of awkward situation? Where someone has tried to kiss them out-of-the-blue?
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Yeah, I had a guy do that on a group date thing one time. It wasn't that big of a deal. I just told him that I wasn't interested in him like that and I'm sorry he got the wrong impression. He was very embarrassed and apologetic just as it sounds like your friend was. It didn't bother me or make me angry -- just embarrassed for him.

I'm sure it's different for you, though, since you aren't even attracted to men.
 
TheGoverness said:
Jeezus. Awkward situations always seem to creep up on me at the worst times.

So there's this guy that lives in my dorm (It's co-ed FYI). And we just so happen to have a Psychology class together on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so we sit together in that class, as he's the only one that I know in the giant lecture room. He's a pretty okay dude to have a conversation with. And last week he brought me along to hang out with his friends a few times when I was bored and had nothing to do. I thought we could be like good friends and study partners. But I must have been giving out the wrong signals, because today, out of ****ing nowhere, he kisses me. I've only known this guy for a little over a week, and he kisses me. I was caught completely off-guard. Did not expect him to do that to me at all. Of course, I shoved him away. I felt more surprised in that moment than angry, at least initially. But I was just like WTF are you doing, and I told him that I didn't like him that way, and that I already had a girlfriend. And he quickly tried to apologize, but I told him to **** off and stormed off. Anger probably wasn't the best tool to handle that situation, but I kinda lost it.

Now he's been texting me all afternoon still trying to apologize for what he did, but I've been avoiding talking to him. I'm not ready to forgive him; I'm still angry about it. This has pretty much ****ed up my whole day; I can't get it out of my head. I've been in situations before where guys have tried to ask me out, and I politely rejected them (although it still hurt me inside to do so). And I had one guy try to kiss me before in high school, but at least I had known the guy for a good while beforehand, and I saw it coming.


Has anyone else been in this kind of awkward situation? Where someone has tried to kiss them out-of-the-blue?
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I never had a guy try to kiss me before (though, at one time, I was called a "waste of man meat") but I have been in situations where someone I wasn't planning on being sexually aggressive surprised me. It happens.

From the male perspective, some guys really never get their mojo working (especially in high school or college) so they try a lot of stuff just to see what works. This guy probably got advice from a buddy that was along the lines of "just go for it!" and he did. You may need to tell him a couple of times that you're a lesbian because sometimes the blood in a guy's penis means that it isn't circulating around his ears and he gets a little deaf.
 
Josie said:
Yeah, I had a guy do that on a group date thing one time. It wasn't that big of a deal. I just told him that I wasn't interested in him like that and I'm sorry he got the wrong impression. He was very embarrassed and apologetic just as it sounds like your friend was.

I'm sure it's different for you, though, since you aren't even attracted to men.
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Exactly, which is why the cold shoulder for a week is required. If he is willing to play nice after that fine, but bad acts need to carry a charge.
 
Hawkeye10 said:
You did it that well.....now let him stew for a week.

He likely will dislike you after that but Oh Well.
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Or won't be able to get her oit of his head.
 
joG said:
Or won't be able to get her oit of his head.
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Given that she in unavailable to him that would actually represent justice.....let him suffer a bit, maybe he will do better the next time he thinks he likes a girl.
 
TheGoverness said:
Jeezus. Awkward situations always seem to creep up on me at the worst times.

So there's this guy that lives in my dorm (It's co-ed FYI). And we just so happen to have a Psychology class together on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so we sit together in that class, as he's the only one that I know in the giant lecture room. He's a pretty okay dude to have a conversation with. And last week he brought me along to hang out with his friends a few times when I was bored and had nothing to do. I thought we could be like good friends and study partners. But I must have been giving out the wrong signals, because today, out of ****ing nowhere, he kisses me. I've only known this guy for a little over a week, and he kisses me. I was caught completely off-guard. Did not expect him to do that to me at all. Of course, I shoved him away. I felt more surprised in that moment than angry, at least initially. But I was just like WTF are you doing, and I told him that I didn't like him that way, and that I already had a girlfriend. And he quickly tried to apologize, but I told him to **** off and stormed off. Anger probably wasn't the best tool to handle that situation, but I kinda lost it.

Now he's been texting me all afternoon still trying to apologize for what he did, but I've been avoiding talking to him. I'm not ready to forgive him; I'm still angry about it. This has pretty much ****ed up my whole day; I can't get it out of my head. I've been in situations before where guys have tried to ask me out, and I politely rejected them (although it still hurt me inside to do so). And I had one guy try to kiss me before in high school, but at least I had known the guy for a good while beforehand, and I saw it coming.


Has anyone else been in this kind of awkward situation? Where someone has tried to kiss them out-of-the-blue?
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Book it under adventure and learning curve and pick ip friendly behavior signals that discourage people you don't want to kiss.
Good luck.
 
TheGoverness said:
Jeezus. Awkward situations always seem to creep up on me at the worst times.

So there's this guy that lives in my dorm (It's co-ed FYI). And we just so happen to have a Psychology class together on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so we sit together in that class, as he's the only one that I know in the giant lecture room. He's a pretty okay dude to have a conversation with. And last week he brought me along to hang out with his friends a few times when I was bored and had nothing to do. I thought we could be like good friends and study partners. But I must have been giving out the wrong signals, because today, out of ****ing nowhere, he kisses me. I've only known this guy for a little over a week, and he kisses me. I was caught completely off-guard. Did not expect him to do that to me at all. Of course, I shoved him away. I felt more surprised in that moment than angry, at least initially. But I was just like WTF are you doing, and I told him that I didn't like him that way, and that I already had a girlfriend. And he quickly tried to apologize, but I told him to **** off and stormed off. Anger probably wasn't the best tool to handle that situation, but I kinda lost it.

Now he's been texting me all afternoon still trying to apologize for what he did, but I've been avoiding talking to him. I'm not ready to forgive him; I'm still angry about it. This has pretty much ****ed up my whole day; I can't get it out of my head. I've been in situations before where guys have tried to ask me out, and I politely rejected them (although it still hurt me inside to do so). And I had one guy try to kiss me before in high school, but at least I had known the guy for a good while beforehand, and I saw it coming.

Has anyone else been in this kind of awkward situation? Where someone has tried to kiss them out-of-the-blue?
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Sweetie Pie, I've been kissed by guys when I didn't even know their first names.

Big girl panties thingie. Birds and bees thingie. Don't make an enemy out of the guy just because he found you attractive. Don't be surprised that your orientation will be questioned again and again. And be happy someone found you attractive and interesting enough to want to have more than a friendship.

Graciously accept his apology. Remain friends if it's feasible. It never hurts to have a big brother watch your back.

Your reaction shows you have some growing to do. And what fun you'll have!
 
Hawkeye10 said:
Given that she in unavailable to him that would actually represent justice.....let him suffer a bit, maybe he will do better the next time he thinks he likes a girl.
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He can turn to boys in his misery.
 
Lutherf said:
I never had a guy try to kiss me before (though, at one time, I was called a "waste of man meat") but I have been in situations where someone I wasn't planning on being sexually aggressive surprised me. It happens.

From the male perspective, some guys really never get their mojo working (especially in high school or college) so they try a lot of stuff just to see what works. This guy probably got advice from a buddy that was along the lines of "just go for it!" and he did. You may need to tell him a couple of times that you're a lesbian because sometimes the blood in a guy's penis means that it isn't circulating around his ears and he gets a little deaf.
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:lamo
 
Usually if a guy asks a girl to hang out with his friends or wants to sit with her in class, good chance that guy is attracted to the female.

And if the female accepted his invitations how in the heck is he suppose to know the female is gay unless she tells him.

The guy has apologized. There shouldn't be any stewing or anger over this. Accept the apology and move on.
 
TheGoverness said:
Jeezus. Awkward situations always seem to creep up on me at the worst times.

So there's this guy that lives in my dorm (It's co-ed FYI). And we just so happen to have a Psychology class together on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so we sit together in that class, as he's the only one that I know in the giant lecture room. He's a pretty okay dude to have a conversation with. And last week he brought me along to hang out with his friends a few times when I was bored and had nothing to do. I thought we could be like good friends and study partners. But I must have been giving out the wrong signals, because today, out of ****ing nowhere, he kisses me. I've only known this guy for a little over a week, and he kisses me. I was caught completely off-guard. Did not expect him to do that to me at all. Of course, I shoved him away. I felt more surprised in that moment than angry, at least initially. But I was just like WTF are you doing, and I told him that I didn't like him that way, and that I already had a girlfriend. And he quickly tried to apologize, but I told him to **** off and stormed off. Anger probably wasn't the best tool to handle that situation, but I kinda lost it.

Now he's been texting me all afternoon still trying to apologize for what he did, but I've been avoiding talking to him. I'm not ready to forgive him; I'm still angry about it. This has pretty much ****ed up my whole day; I can't get it out of my head. I've been in situations before where guys have tried to ask me out, and I politely rejected them (although it still hurt me inside to do so). And I had one guy try to kiss me before in high school, but at least I had known the guy for a good while beforehand, and I saw it coming.


Has anyone else been in this kind of awkward situation? Where someone has tried to kiss them out-of-the-blue?
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I would imagine the vast majority of people have. I know i have but its never made me angry accept in a case where i had a girlfriend, the girl knew my girlfriend and she was basically just trying to cause trouble. And i was only angry because her advances happened multiple times.

Of course this is your own personal business and you dont have to share but im curious what parts you are leaving out to lead you to anger.
 
I suggest trolling the guy


Tell him you just found out you are gay, the day after he kissed you, and thank him for helping you find out who you really are

Only do this if you are sure he wont go nuts about it, and if you want the floor to know that you are gay

He will always wonder if he was the one who turned you gay, and try to figure out what he did that did it
 
Lord Tammerlain said:
I suggest trolling the guy


Tell him you just found out you are gay, the day after he kissed you, and thank him for helping you find out who you really are

Only do this if you are sure he wont go nuts about it, and if you want the floor to know that you are gay

He will always wonder if he was the one who turned you gay, and try to figure out what he did that did it
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OMG. Where's the smiley face??
 
vesper said:
Usually if a guy asks a girl to hang out with his friends or wants to sit with her in class, good chance that guy is attracted to the female.

And if the female accepted his invitations how in the heck is he suppose to know the female is gay unless she tells him.

The guy has apologized. There shouldn't be any stewing or anger over this. Accept the apology and move on.
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Yeah, he picked up on the wrong signals and apologized. Don't know what more he can do at this point. Ball is now in TheGoverness's court, does she want his friendship or not.
 
TheGoverness said:
Jeezus. Awkward situations always seem to creep up on me at the worst times.

So there's this guy that lives in my dorm (It's co-ed FYI). And we just so happen to have a Psychology class together on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so we sit together in that class, as he's the only one that I know in the giant lecture room. He's a pretty okay dude to have a conversation with. And last week he brought me along to hang out with his friends a few times when I was bored and had nothing to do. I thought we could be like good friends and study partners. But I must have been giving out the wrong signals, because today, out of ****ing nowhere, he kisses me. I've only known this guy for a little over a week, and he kisses me. I was caught completely off-guard. Did not expect him to do that to me at all. Of course, I shoved him away. I felt more surprised in that moment than angry, at least initially. But I was just like WTF are you doing, and I told him that I didn't like him that way, and that I already had a girlfriend. And he quickly tried to apologize, but I told him to **** off and stormed off. Anger probably wasn't the best tool to handle that situation, but I kinda lost it.

Now he's been texting me all afternoon still trying to apologize for what he did, but I've been avoiding talking to him. I'm not ready to forgive him; I'm still angry about it. This has pretty much ****ed up my whole day; I can't get it out of my head. I've been in situations before where guys have tried to ask me out, and I politely rejected them (although it still hurt me inside to do so). And I had one guy try to kiss me before in high school, but at least I had known the guy for a good while beforehand, and I saw it coming.


Has anyone else been in this kind of awkward situation? Where someone has tried to kiss them out-of-the-blue?
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First things first!

Did you wipe the Coodies off?

Then... try to let him know he isn't an asshole... unless he is. He is a guy that likes you.
 
vesper said:
Usually if a guy asks a girl to hang out with his friends or wants to sit with her in class, good chance that guy is attracted to the female.

And if the female accepted his invitations how in the heck is he suppose to know the female is gay unless she tells him.

The guy has apologized. There shouldn't be any stewing or anger over this. Accept the apology and move on.
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Usually? If he is single then it is 100% of the time. 100% of the time he wants to be with her sexually...
 
Henrin advice would be golden in this thread. ;)

Anyway accept his apology and move on. He made a mistake, everyone does. If he makes that mistake again? Then tell him to permanently get lost.
 
TheGoverness said:
Jeezus. Awkward situations always seem to creep up on me at the worst times.

So there's this guy that lives in my dorm (It's co-ed FYI). And we just so happen to have a Psychology class together on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so we sit together in that class, as he's the only one that I know in the giant lecture room. He's a pretty okay dude to have a conversation with. And last week he brought me along to hang out with his friends a few times when I was bored and had nothing to do. I thought we could be like good friends and study partners. But I must have been giving out the wrong signals, because today, out of ****ing nowhere, he kisses me. I've only known this guy for a little over a week, and he kisses me. I was caught completely off-guard. Did not expect him to do that to me at all. Of course, I shoved him away. I felt more surprised in that moment than angry, at least initially. But I was just like WTF are you doing, and I told him that I didn't like him that way, and that I already had a girlfriend. And he quickly tried to apologize, but I told him to **** off and stormed off. Anger probably wasn't the best tool to handle that situation, but I kinda lost it.

Now he's been texting me all afternoon still trying to apologize for what he did, but I've been avoiding talking to him. I'm not ready to forgive him; I'm still angry about it. This has pretty much ****ed up my whole day; I can't get it out of my head. I've been in situations before where guys have tried to ask me out, and I politely rejected them (although it still hurt me inside to do so). And I had one guy try to kiss me before in high school, but at least I had known the guy for a good while beforehand, and I saw it coming.


Has anyone else been in this kind of awkward situation? Where someone has tried to kiss them out-of-the-blue?
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I strongly suggest that you DO NOT got to New Orelans for Mardi Gras
 
Quag said:
I strongly suggest that you DO NOT got to New Orelans for Mardi Gras
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A complete derail on my part. On Bourbon Street, a guy said to us group of ladies, throw me some beads and I'll drop my pants. Well... three Hurricanes and a party-on mood meant we showered him. He dropped his pants, and... I've never even imagined anything like it. Can you say, "penis reduction surgery"?

Sure was worth the beads :lamo
 
TheGoverness said:
Jeezus. Awkward situations always seem to creep up on me at the worst times.

So there's this guy that lives in my dorm (It's co-ed FYI). And we just so happen to have a Psychology class together on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so we sit together in that class, as he's the only one that I know in the giant lecture room. He's a pretty okay dude to have a conversation with. And last week he brought me along to hang out with his friends a few times when I was bored and had nothing to do. I thought we could be like good friends and study partners. But I must have been giving out the wrong signals, because today, out of ****ing nowhere, he kisses me. I've only known this guy for a little over a week, and he kisses me. I was caught completely off-guard. Did not expect him to do that to me at all. Of course, I shoved him away. I felt more surprised in that moment than angry, at least initially. But I was just like WTF are you doing, and I told him that I didn't like him that way, and that I already had a girlfriend. And he quickly tried to apologize, but I told him to **** off and stormed off. Anger probably wasn't the best tool to handle that situation, but I kinda lost it.

Now he's been texting me all afternoon still trying to apologize for what he did, but I've been avoiding talking to him. I'm not ready to forgive him; I'm still angry about it. This has pretty much ****ed up my whole day; I can't get it out of my head. I've been in situations before where guys have tried to ask me out, and I politely rejected them (although it still hurt me inside to do so). And I had one guy try to kiss me before in high school, but at least I had known the guy for a good while beforehand, and I saw it coming.


Has anyone else been in this kind of awkward situation? Where someone has tried to kiss them out-of-the-blue?
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Ohhh, yes. I'm really sorry you went through that. Unfortunately, welcome to how "adults" can sometimes be now that they aren't being watched by their parents anymore...

Your anger is justified, and I'm glad you told him that is in no way ok. Maybe next time he won't just assume that woman being nice to him = now he gets to touch her. He needs to be broken of that habit as early as possible and learn to actually express his feelings rather than taking womens' bubbles for granted.

As far as I'm concerned, you did the boy a favor. Hopefully he will remember this incident. You are under no obligation to forgive him, or even to speak to him, but if or when you do decide to speak to him, it would not hurt to reiterate the point in calmer tones for absolute clarity: touching women sexually without any communication or permission is not ok. But again, only if you feel like talking to him.

It sounds like you've had a lot of highs and lows this week. Try to lean on the new friends you've made, talk to your friends and family back home, and take a nice bath, girl.
 
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