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Little back story, I started a new job, I've been there about 2 months. Right away, I noticed this stunning girl who works there. My first few weeks there, she would always stick around afterwards and drink beer with another coworker, while I was finishing up for the night. So, we would naturally end up talking and getting to know each other. All just light casual stuff. What do you like to do for fun? Where are you from? How old are you? Stuff like that. I thought at first, that she was dating the guy, she hung around with. Or, at least that they had a physical relationship, a couple times a week. Well, turns out that's not the case. Even though, I'm not totally convinced there isn't mutual attraction between them.
Anyway, eventually we added each other on facebook, and have talked on there a little bit. She's really responsive to my messages, and has shown equal interest in me, as I have in her. But, I've just been a friend to her. I can't recall ever hitting on her, at all. One night we were just talking about what kind of cookies we like, and she said her favorite was choc. chip. And I said, "I make the best choc. chip." Well, she disputed that, and said she could make better. So, I challenged her to a bake-off. I was trained by a pastry chef, so, I knew I could make some pretty damn good cookies, but, she was pretty confident hers were better. Maybe she was just in it for the sport of it. But, we brought the cookies in, and most everyone said mine were better. I sensed that her feelings were kind of hurt, so, instead of acting like an ass, I told her that her cookies were great and to not listen to the haters. And I told her, I really appreciated her baking them for everyone, and that we should have another challenge sometime with another item.
That was last week, and since then, I've kind of laid off talking to her as much as I had been. I did talk to her today for a little while, and I told her she was fun to work with. She told me I was "the best". And I was kind of dumbfounded, so I just said, "Thank you."
She has shown interest in me, but, since we work together, I've been taking it real slow, with revealing any sort of physical attraction, or, desire for a relationship. Since we will see each other basically all summer long, there is too much to lose by giving into temptation. So, I think once school starts back up, if there is still a spark there, I will ask her out. But, what do you think? Maybe just ask her what her days off are, and if she would go to the park and have lunch together?
Anyway, eventually we added each other on facebook, and have talked on there a little bit. She's really responsive to my messages, and has shown equal interest in me, as I have in her. But, I've just been a friend to her. I can't recall ever hitting on her, at all. One night we were just talking about what kind of cookies we like, and she said her favorite was choc. chip. And I said, "I make the best choc. chip." Well, she disputed that, and said she could make better. So, I challenged her to a bake-off. I was trained by a pastry chef, so, I knew I could make some pretty damn good cookies, but, she was pretty confident hers were better. Maybe she was just in it for the sport of it. But, we brought the cookies in, and most everyone said mine were better. I sensed that her feelings were kind of hurt, so, instead of acting like an ass, I told her that her cookies were great and to not listen to the haters. And I told her, I really appreciated her baking them for everyone, and that we should have another challenge sometime with another item.
That was last week, and since then, I've kind of laid off talking to her as much as I had been. I did talk to her today for a little while, and I told her she was fun to work with. She told me I was "the best". And I was kind of dumbfounded, so I just said, "Thank you."
She has shown interest in me, but, since we work together, I've been taking it real slow, with revealing any sort of physical attraction, or, desire for a relationship. Since we will see each other basically all summer long, there is too much to lose by giving into temptation. So, I think once school starts back up, if there is still a spark there, I will ask her out. But, what do you think? Maybe just ask her what her days off are, and if she would go to the park and have lunch together?
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