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How crazy is she?

Crovax

Crovax

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So I have a profile on a few of the online dating sites and yesterday I get this message:

Her: Hey random question, Did you used to work at ********?

Me: Yes, I did

Her: Ok well I used to work there also but I had the biggest crush on you and was married so that was the reason I left.

Some background: I am good looking(I have a very symmetrical face) but Im not someone you would pick out of a crowd. I was the night shift manager there so grooming wasnt as good as it could be. I dont flirt with people, my company has very strict rules about "conflicts of interest" and being a manager everyone in the store was under my supervision. Most important, I dont know who this girl is. Her profile pic wasnt of her just some random **** and her user name didnt give anything away. Just going by age I was trying to place her and couldnt do it, so it wasnt like we had some sort of connection.

We talked for a bit and have a date set up but Im thinking this might be a bad idea.

Is this a common thing where women are so attracted to people they have to quit their jobs, or this this woman just crazy?

I mean would I be breaking Rule #1 ?
 
She's crazy that's for sure, but that shouldn't deter you.
Personally I love the carzy ones, otherwise it's just boring.
 
Crovax said:
So I have a profile on a few of the online dating sites and yesterday I get this message:

Her: Hey random question, Did you used to work at ********?

Me: Yes, I did

Her: Ok well I used to work there also but I had the biggest crush on you and was married so that was the reason I left.

Some background: I am good looking(I have a very symmetrical face) but Im not someone you would pick out of a crowd. I was the night shift manager there so grooming wasnt as good as it could be. I dont flirt with people, my company has very strict rules about "conflicts of interest" and being a manager everyone in the store was under my supervision. Most important, I dont know who this girl is. Her profile pic wasnt of her just some random **** and her user name didnt give anything away. Just going by age I was trying to place her and couldnt do it, so it wasnt like we had some sort of connection.

We talked for a bit and have a date set up but Im thinking this might be a bad idea.

Is this a common thing where women are so attracted to people they have to quit their jobs, or this this woman just crazy?

I mean would I be breaking Rule #1 ?
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Wait. You haven't even gone out, and you're planning to **** her? Not too particular, are you?

She doesn't sound crazy to me...though I wouldn't want to be at the disadvantage of her knowing who I was and not vice versa.
 
Bring a tazer just in case.
 
Crovax said:
So I have a profile on a few of the online dating sites and yesterday I get this message:

Her: Hey random question, Did you used to work at ********?

Me: Yes, I did

Her: Ok well I used to work there also but I had the biggest crush on you and was married so that was the reason I left.

Some background: I am good looking(I have a very symmetrical face) but Im not someone you would pick out of a crowd. I was the night shift manager there so grooming wasnt as good as it could be. I dont flirt with people, my company has very strict rules about "conflicts of interest" and being a manager everyone in the store was under my supervision. Most important, I dont know who this girl is. Her profile pic wasnt of her just some random **** and her user name didnt give anything away. Just going by age I was trying to place her and couldnt do it, so it wasnt like we had some sort of connection.

We talked for a bit and have a date set up but Im thinking this might be a bad idea.

Is this a common thing where women are so attracted to people they have to quit their jobs, or this this woman just crazy?

I mean would I be breaking Rule #1 ?
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One thing that stands out is that she had a crush on you but was married so instead of making things more complicated she left the job. Knowing nothing else of her or her situation, doing that shows she didn't want to further complicate her work and home life and that's decent of her.
 
MaggieD said:
Wait. You haven't even gone out, and you're planning to **** her? Not too particular, are you?

She doesn't sound crazy to me...though I wouldn't want to be at the disadvantage of her knowing who I was and not vice versa.
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She just got divorced and first thing she hops right on a dating site and contacts her crush, I don't mean to presume but it seems likes she's DTF. I'm not saying I'm going to but if we go out that would seem to be where it would go. Just trying to figure out if that would be a mistake or not.
 
americanwoman said:
One thing that stands out is that she had a crush on you but was married so instead of making things more complicated she left the job. Knowing nothing else of her or her situation, doing that shows she didn't want to further complicate her work and home life and that's decent of her.
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Or it shows she emotional immature and unable to cope with conflicting feelings leading to drastic and irrational actions. Which is what I'm afraid of.
 
Crovax said:
So I have a profile on a few of the online dating sites and yesterday I get this message:

Her: Hey random question, Did you used to work at ********?

Me: Yes, I did

Her: Ok well I used to work there also but I had the biggest crush on you and was married so that was the reason I left.

Some background: I am good looking(I have a very symmetrical face) but Im not someone you would pick out of a crowd. I was the night shift manager there so grooming wasnt as good as it could be. I dont flirt with people, my company has very strict rules about "conflicts of interest" and being a manager everyone in the store was under my supervision. Most important, I dont know who this girl is. Her profile pic wasnt of her just some random **** and her user name didnt give anything away. Just going by age I was trying to place her and couldnt do it, so it wasnt like we had some sort of connection.

We talked for a bit and have a date set up but Im thinking this might be a bad idea.

Is this a common thing where women are so attracted to people they have to quit their jobs, or this this woman just crazy?

I mean would I be breaking Rule #1 ?
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My first suspicion is scam/thief rather than crazy, especially since you volunteered the name of the place you worked before she provided it. Online dating sites have a fair number of these types. Don't leave anything important/valuable out where it can be stolen and you should be fine (unless she puts something in your drink lol). Otherwise ..... I've always felt Rule #1 had a lot of exceptions. There's different kinds of crazy. Some are fun, some **** your life up. You probably already know how to tell the difference if you've been in the dating market any length of time.
 
Crovax said:
Or it shows she emotional immature and unable to cope with conflicting feelings leading to drastic and irrational actions. Which is what I'm afraid of.
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True. One or the other, only way to find out is to jump in. :)
 
shagg said:
My first suspicion is scam/thief rather than crazy, especially since you volunteered the name of the place you worked before she provided it. Don't leave anything important/valuable out where it can be stolen. Otherwise ..... I've always felt Rule #1 had a lot of exceptions. There's different kinds of crazy. Some are fun, some **** your life up. You probably already know how to tell the difference if you've been in the dating market any length of time.
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No I didn't, she provided it and she also knew the name I go by at work which is not the name on my profile
 
Crovax said:
She just got divorced and first thing she hops right on a dating site and contacts her crush, I don't mean to presume but it seems likes she's DTF. I'm not saying I'm going to but if we go out that would seem to be where it would go. Just trying to figure out if that would be a mistake or not.
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Just go out with her. If you get back to her place and she's got a wall filled with pictures of you and a voodoo doll made out of used chewing gum you left in company ash trays then she's probably crazy.
 
Crovax said:
She just got divorced and first thing she hops right on a dating site and contacts her crush, I don't mean to presume but it seems likes she's DTF. I'm not saying I'm going to but if we go out that would seem to be where it would go. Just trying to figure out if that would be a mistake or not.
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People view thing out of reach and at a distance from a different perspective,
than when those things are closer and within reach.
I don't think she is crazy.
 
Lutherf said:
Just go out with her. If you get back to her place and she's got a wall filled with pictures of you and a voodoo doll made out of used chewing gum you left in company ash trays then she's probably crazy.
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It would seem to be too late at that point, if I get murder-suicided then I'm gonna blame it on you
 
Crovax said:
No I didn't, she provided it and she also knew the name I go by at work which is not the name on my profile
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Ah good, you're just dealing with potential crazy then. In that case, I would say not to judge her too deeply until the first face to face conversation. The scenario could make a relatively sane person seem crazy. In your shoes, I'd give her a chance.
 
MaggieD said:
Wait. You haven't even gone out, and you're planning to **** her? Not too particular, are you?

She doesn't sound crazy to me...though I wouldn't want to be at the disadvantage of her knowing who I was and not vice versa.
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The whole thing sounds like an episode of Archer...
 
PoS said:
The whole thing sounds like an episode of Archer...
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Well he always seems to make it out alright, so I might be okay. I'll just have 8 or 12 drinks before hand so I won't even notice of she is crazy.
 
Crovax said:
So I have a profile on a few of the online dating sites and yesterday I get this message:

Her: Hey random question, Did you used to work at ********?

Me: Yes, I did

Her: Ok well I used to work there also but I had the biggest crush on you and was married so that was the reason I left.

Some background: I am good looking(I have a very symmetrical face) but Im not someone you would pick out of a crowd. I was the night shift manager there so grooming wasnt as good as it could be. I dont flirt with people, my company has very strict rules about "conflicts of interest" and being a manager everyone in the store was under my supervision. Most important, I dont know who this girl is. Her profile pic wasnt of her just some random **** and her user name didnt give anything away. Just going by age I was trying to place her and couldnt do it, so it wasnt like we had some sort of connection.

We talked for a bit and have a date set up but Im thinking this might be a bad idea.

Is this a common thing where women are so attracted to people they have to quit their jobs, or this this woman just crazy?

I mean would I be breaking Rule #1 ?
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Do you remember her from her pics?
 
Crovax said:
So I have a profile on a few of the online dating sites and yesterday I get this message:

Her: Hey random question, Did you used to work at ********?

Me: Yes, I did

Her: Ok well I used to work there also but I had the biggest crush on you and was married so that was the reason I left.

Some background: I am good looking(I have a very symmetrical face) but Im not someone you would pick out of a crowd. I was the night shift manager there so grooming wasnt as good as it could be. I dont flirt with people, my company has very strict rules about "conflicts of interest" and being a manager everyone in the store was under my supervision. Most important, I dont know who this girl is. Her profile pic wasnt of her just some random **** and her user name didnt give anything away. Just going by age I was trying to place her and couldnt do it, so it wasnt like we had some sort of connection.

We talked for a bit and have a date set up but Im thinking this might be a bad idea.

Is this a common thing where women are so attracted to people they have to quit their jobs, or this this woman just crazy?

I mean would I be breaking Rule #1 ?
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Odds are she is just talking ****. I doubt she quit because of you. But, if she did---she kray kray.
 
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