To be a technological, communicative ETC they'd need advanced communication (such as language), data storage (ie writing), the ability to readily manipulate their environment (opposable thumbs, etc), strong curiosity or equivalent (to explore, experiment, and build new things), to develop to the level of technology that would allow them to communicate with us, or otherwise do things we could detect going on in our stellar neighborhood.
Then, setting "FTL" aside for the moment, they'd need to survive as an advanced civilization long enough for us to detect their signals, or vice-versa. And the signals would need to be strong: people often talk about how we've been sending out RF for over 100 years, but scientists have said we probably couldn't detect equivalent-strength signals coming from Alpha Centauri with our current in-use radio telescopes (too weak).