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THIS IS OUR PRESIDENT
Everyone of voting age should read these two books. Don't buy them, get them from the library before they are removed from the shelves.
From Dreams of My Father: 'I ceased to advertise my mother's race at the age of 12 or 13, when I began to suspect that by doing so I was ingratiating myself to whites.'
From Dreams of My Father : 'I found a solace in nursing a pervasive sense of grievance and animosity against my mother's race.'
From Dreams of My Father: 'There was something about her that made me wary, a little too sure of herself, maybe and white.
From Dreams of My Father: 'It remained necessary to prove which side you were on, to show your loyalty to the black masses, to strike out and name names.'
From Dreams of My Father: 'I never emulate white men and brown men whose fates didn't speak to my own. It was into my father's image, the black man, son of Africa , that I'd packed all the attributes I sought in myself: the attributes of Martin and Malcolm,
DuBois and Mandela.'
And FINALLY, and most scary!
From Audacity of Hope: 'I will stand with the Muslims should the political winds shift in an ugly direction.'
These are his words straight from his books!
Perhaps jetboogieman you may care to explain these words from the Messiah's books, books he wrote prior to becoming President?
Jujuman.
What you're having a problem with is accepting the struggle that mixed-race children DO have. If we weren't a racist/slave whipping country in the past they wouldn't HAVE these problems.
I don't think you could ever imagine what it's like being scorned by your peers because of you're parent's race(s) - nor do I think you really want to understand what it's like.
People like you flipping out over their inner-struggle aren't helping (and it's not just black/white mixed children who go through this, mind you) It's really a sad problem and instead of understanding you're actually building up a blind wall which only makes it worse for them.
What are mix-race children suppose to do and feel when their peers - black and white - reject them for skin-deep issues?
Do you prefer that they never express their feelings and just bottle them up - ignore it?
Sometimes it's important to talk about these things - more important than you are capable of comprehending. It's not RACIST to discuss your childhood race-problems. It is IMMATURE, however, to freak out when someone decides to voice what was on their minds when they were 10 or 15.
Accept it - blacks and whites marry and have children and their children will endure serious race issues throughout their entire LIVES and nothing you say will change that.
I haven't read "Dreams of My Father" nor "Audacity of Hope", but I did read "From Promise to Power" by David Mendell, a white journalist who followed Pres. Obama's political career from the days he was a Community Organizer to the Presidency, and one thing that was a constant issue in the book was how Obama struggled with his bi-racial identity - which side did he really fit it with. It was interesting how he constantly fought with this struggle of identiy as many Whites found him likeable but only "accepted" him if in their minds he "measured up" yet many Blacks felt that he wasn't "black enough".
My daughter is bi-racial - mixed as it were - half white, half black. It's been interesting watching her grown (she's only 8), but just as what happened w/Pres. Obama I'm finding similarities w/my daughter as she's growns up and finds her niche within interpersonal relationships among her peers. My daughter's very light skinned; so she passes more for White than Black. Thus, naturally, she gravitates more towards Whites than Blacks. Still, she'll play with anyone...doesn't matter. I'm sure that will change as she gets older (assuming that racism still plays a major role in our society where interpersonal relationships is concerned), but as I watch my child's development I was reminded of reading these same aspects in this particular book which also referenced many of the racial identification issues Pres. Obama mentioned he struggled with in his own books.
I won't deny that Pres. Obama is passionate moreso for his African (American) heritage than he is for his (White) American heritage. His views on race have clearly been shaped not only from how he was treated growing up but also from the influences in his life primarily through college but reinforced from the experiences he's gain while a Community Organizer in Chicago. Unless you're African American, lived closely among African Americans as my wife and her two biological children are now living (and have lived for the last 10 years) or you are of Bi-racial decent, you will never truly know what it's like to live in a world where the color of your skin is still treated with apprehension and some misgivings. Of course, I can no more say what it's like to be White in America than a White man can say what it's like to be Black. But I can say I know what's it's like to be an American. And frankly, that's what I try to see every day...if not for the betterment of myself than for the sake of my children, both White, Black and my little bi-racial darling.