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    Re: Nine-Year-Old Boy Asks Buttigieg Advice on Coming Out as Gay

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    Re: Nine-Year-Old Boy Asks Buttigieg Advice on Coming Out as Gay

    Quote Originally Posted by TheGoverness View Post
    I'm certainly more into the romance aspect. Though sex is also an amazing addition.
    For me both are a requirement. At this point in life, I know enough about myself that I will rule someone out as a potential partner if their libido is too low. Otherwise, it just opens us up both for misunderstanding and disappointment, especially as there are multiple ways sex can relate to emotional closeness and you gotta be on the same page as your partner in that.

    I wish sex was less complicated, but you gotta do what you gotta do I guess. I know how I need to be treated to feel loved, so I am just aware of that before I let myself end up with someone.
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    Re: Nine-Year-Old Boy Asks Buttigieg Advice on Coming Out as Gay

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    Re: Nine-Year-Old Boy Asks Buttigieg Advice on Coming Out as Gay

    Quote Originally Posted by tacomancer View Post
    For me both are a requirement. At this point in life, I know enough about myself that I will rule someone out as a potential partner if their libido is too low.

    I wish sex was less complicated, but you gotta do what you gotta do I guess.
    Matching up with a partner with similar libidos is definitely a big consideration. Lots of people get with others who don't have high sex drives, which isn't a bad thing, but it does put strain on a relationship where the other is craving for it. It happens. Thankfully, my girlfriend and I both have high libidos.

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    Re: Nine-Year-Old Boy Asks Buttigieg Advice on Coming Out as Gay

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    Am I wrong to find this disturbing? I am gay and I was in my twenties before I had that figured out. I even dated girls in college. How is it a prepubescent child would have any notion of their sexual orientation? Most kids this age are more interested in Roblox and Fortnite than sexual preferences. I know this was probably just a political stunt but it seems creepy to me. It certainly won't help with the classic image that gays are all secret pedophiles who want to lower the age of consent so they can molest young boys.
    What are you trying to say? Would you rather gay people stay in the closet?
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    Re: Nine-Year-Old Boy Asks Buttigieg Advice on Coming Out as Gay

    Quote Originally Posted by tacomancer View Post
    That is much different from me at that age. I was just plain horny but had no faculties in which to understand it. I REALLY liked looking at naked women though and when I got old enough, I found a good FWB throughout HS but never thought about an actual relationship.

    Now that I am older, I seem to like romance and connection more than just sex. It's interesting watching my instincts evolve.
    I raided the playboy stashes as a kid, too. I've mostly been a serial monogamist, with some notable exceptions.

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    Re: Nine-Year-Old Boy Asks Buttigieg Advice on Coming Out as Gay

    Quote Originally Posted by TheGoverness View Post
    Matching up with a partner with similar libidos is definitely a big consideration. Lots of people get with others who don't have high sex drives, which isn't a bad thing, but it does put strain on a relationship where the other is craving for it. It happens. Thankfully, my girlfriend and I both have high libidos.

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    Yup. My GF and I would probably go about it daily or every other day if circumstances were practical for it (right now they are not). There have been several days where I have struggled to keep up with her (which is a good problem to have!). But tbh, that is far from the main reason(s) she is awesome.
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    What are you trying to say? Would you rather gay people stay in the closet?
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    Re: Nine-Year-Old Boy Asks Buttigieg Advice on Coming Out as Gay

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    I raided the playboy stashes as a kid, too. I've mostly been a serial monogamist, with some notable exceptions.
    Same here. I was married for 15 years at some point, then three more relationships that lasted about 2 years each. From those women I learned about myself and how to be better at relationships in a way that works for me too. This one I am in now, there is reason to think that woman is special and we will be together for a VERY long time.
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    Re: Nine-Year-Old Boy Asks Buttigieg Advice on Coming Out as Gay

    Quote Originally Posted by tacomancer View Post
    Yup. My GF and I would probably go about it daily or every other day if circumstances were practical for it (right now they are not). There have been several days where I have struggled to keep up with her (which is a good problem to have!). But tbh, that is far from the main reason(s) she is awesome.
    Yeah, I totally understand that. College gets in the way, but we can see each other more now, that she's only a couple hours way, instead of a state away.

    Oh, and I cannot wait for spring break! Just two more weeks!
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