This sort of thing gets incredibly complex.
The entertainment business makes it even more so.
My first wife met HER first husband when she was all of 20 herself.
She was working in a men's clothing store, he was a famous Hollywood writer and producer (Red Dawn, Raid on Entebbe, Seamus)
He beat her regularly, about once a week, then would fork over between three and five thousand bucks.
In his mind that cancelled out the senseless beatings, which could be about literally anything.
She managed to stuff all this down for years.
Then she medicated, then I met her...she was definitely still medicating, and putting on a very happy and blissful front.
This was about eight years after they had split up.
Then finally, the medicating ceased to work, and suddenly she was pasting his identity on me subconsciously.
It all came boiling to the surface like a dormant volcano suddenly turning active.
FULL. PSYCHO. MELTDOWN.
A "mutually entered into thing"? Hardly...she was a twenty year old girl and she had just married the guy.
She stuck it out for eight years, then I wound up with her eight years later.