What I hope would be obvious by this point is that you think that's all your doing, but there's a major side effect to your view called letting them have whatever they want because they threw a big tantrum. . .Remember that one episode of the Twilight Zone where the kids had the supernatural powers to hurt people? And everyone gave him anything he wanted because they feared for their lives? Yeah, your view is like that. Exactly like that.
. . . and what happened in that episode? Mmhmm - rent the DVD, I think it would be a good lesson, here. (Episode 31 - season 1). (And it is just that pathetic that I can compare a 'religious thug group' to an episode of the Twilight Zone - they are just that bizarre and out of control)
You don't want to give the extremists what they want, but you are, anyway, and you're getting nothing in return. There is no 'oh, well since you played fair, we'll not drill out the eyes of our prisoner's, over here.'
Have you paid attention to what sets them off? I have - things like a cartoon pictures and a painting of Mohammed that wasn't offensive. I'm surprised that when McD's designed the 'offensive icecream' that they didn't hack off their own hands and gouge out their own eyes (before they hacked off their hands, of course). Oh, but when the McD's cone incident did occur I bet they threatened the CEO to repent and recant, which she did, out of fear.
We're not dealing with reasonable people.
Heck - earlier I griped that *if you actually cared* - but really, it should be *if anyone in the entire world actually cared.*
The Catholic Church behaved in the same way - and it led to the 100 years war, but guess what? They no longer torch non-believers and plague the world like Devils.