RE: Infertile couples.
I stated this in my previous post, actually the post you quoted from?? When we look at fundamental, we must search for the very basic reason for marriage. Only after the human desire to mate, intrinsic to us all, apparently also to homosexuals, does everything else start to add up, and eventually culminating in the decision to make the bond lasting. We mate first for sex, and then what follows varies depending on who you speak too. This is why marriage is fundamental, and the why is mate and produce offspring. That it doesn't happen this way for everyone, or that some choose not too, is immaterial to what makes marriage about procreation - fundamentally speaking!
And 'fundamentally speaking', you still haven't provided an ironclad reason for exclusion. We agree on a few things, obviously - the desire for sex, and to pair bond under the term marriage. Where we disagree is the exclusion of same sex couples from the institution of marriage.
Let's deconstruct your argument a bit if we may, just so we are on the same page, then we can continue forward. In both of your posts -this one and the portion of #127 that I quoted - you state that marriage is 'fundamental', and you examine the basic reasons for marriage. Sex is one - "the human desire to mate" (post #131), and "some part of the male interacting with some part of the female (post #127). We are on the same page so far, as having sex is one reason that folks get married. Then you mention procreation as another reason, to "mate and produce offspring" (post #130), a position supported by you in #127 as well. So far, we are still on the same page. Two reasons folks get married is for sex and procreation. No disagreement here.
After this, it gets a bit hazy. You claim in #127 that "of all the arguments I've seen in favor of SSM, I've never seen anyone argue successfully that the state has ANY interests outside of procreation." I disagree, but this is a fair observation on your part. However, you go on to add "assuming the state is in for the kids, then we need to look at the fundamental design of humanity...humans, like every other species on the planet are designed to procreate"
1. Concern #1: Why must we look at the fundamental human phenotypic design - specifically that of the sexual organs - in order to correctly argue that the state is involved in marriage 'for the kids' and homosexuals are potentially excluded? What reason does the state need to look at the 'fundamental design of humanity' to determine who may or may not raise a child? Or did you mean something entirely different by fundamental design, and if so, what about that determines if the state either condones the raising of children by people with this characteristic, or excludes them because of it?
In #127, when discussing procreation, you go on to mention "With some exceptions, all of them do it with some part of the male interacting with some part of the female." And you are correct, assuming by 'some part' you mean the sexual organs. You even mention the exceptions, like IVF. No disagreement here. Then you go on to say "So, fundamentally, it is pressumed that men and women are observably consistent with the correct way to bond, and produce offspring" leading to my observation that 'correct' implies moral subjective position here, not merely accuracy or accepted standard.
Then you go on to say, "It is intrinsic to humanity, it is pressumptive that when men and women bond, they produce children"
Concern #2: Saying that "it is intrinsic to humanity to produce children" is not universally intrinsic, as intrinsic refers to fundamental nature or property. It is certainly intrinsic to have sex, but children? That's quite a stretch, as there are plenty of examples where humanity voluntarily chooses not to have children. This doesn't work from the standpoint of intrinsic by desire, either, as you are confronted with the same argument. In addition, in order for something to be labelled 'intrinsic', it's generally a universally identifiable characteristic or property (for example, an intrinsic property of
E coli is the metabolism of citrate).
Concern #3: "Presumptive that when men and women 'bond [have sex], they produce children" is not entirely true. No one presumes that every couple that is married or dating is having sex ("bond" as you are calling it here) to produce children. Humanity is filled with examples of people having sex for plenty of reasons besides procreation. What do you mean here? Who presumes that
every woman and man have sex simply to procreate?
Then you say, "That some don't, and that some can't, is immaterial to these intrinsic chacteristics"
Concern #4: You haven't given any reason why those that "don't" or "can't" procreate should be included in marriage if they are heterosexual couples, and excluded if they are homosexual. You've based your argument on the so-called 'intrinsic' desire to have children, which is not universally true, but then go on to assume that this intrinsic desire coupled with 'bonding' in some 'correct' manner somehow allows for infertile heterosexual marriage, while disallowing same sex marriage. In philosophy, that's called 'begging the question' - your assuming this unrpoven, so-called intrinsic desire and the bonding issue is sufficient reason to exclude same sex couples.
This needs a LOT more explanation to hold water.
RE: subjective moral position.
No, rather, objective, I prefer to think!
And yet, your position is not shared by everyone, nor is it morally suspect to say that one is for marriage equality. No, this is an excellent example of subjectivity, as not everyone would concur with your moral belief, nor is there any universal appeal to wrongness here.
By themselves, no, but it is my belief that the effects of homosexual parenting have no been fully vetted. No worse, or better than any heterosexual bonding that is also harmful, or potentially dysfunctional. That said, I am not opposed to homosexual parenting.
Re-read what you wrote - you believe that "homosexual parenting" is "no worse, or better than any heterosexual bonding that is also harmful...that said, I am not opposed to homosexual parenting". What the heck? If homosexual parenting was no better than a harmful heterosexual parenting, wouldn't that be EVERY reason for you to oppose it?