No, 'we' don't lose when you take what i'm saying as a poor substitute for intelligent discourse - you do. Your opinion is that me and the others who do not wish to participate in your religious public ceremony should be silent and observe, which is in effect you telling me that I should participate. That's the same argument you types always put up claiming to be in defense of your religion, and until you understand that this is exactly why you keep seeing more and more removal of religious ideology from public institutions and locations, I expect these kind of threads will continue.
Furthermore, you speak of my viewpoint as being narcissistic simply because I don't wish to be forced into silence in a public place over a religious ideology that I don't believe in. That's absolutely ridiculous. I'm not saying abolish your ceremonies in public. I'm saying STOP forcing me to be quiet and participate, observe, or whatever. If you can't accept the fact that there are many other people on this planet who do not want to participate in your religion, again, be prepared to see your public religious ceremonies removed. In other words, stop telling me to be quiet when you're having your public prayer. My conversation was already taking place, anyway, so the reality of the situation is that they interrupted me.
Oh, and regarding your belief that I feel guilty by failing to participate in or observe your particular religious ceremonies, nice try. Since we are apparently into hurling rampant generalizations about one another, perhaps it is you that feels guilty for devoting such attention to some nonexistent superbeing? If so, perhaps you would be less crestfallen if you were to devote your attention to a much cooler entity, such as the Flying Spaghetti Monster. Pastafarianism is all the rage these days.