Please define dressing as a woman for us, Jerry. And sorry, you OWN personal opinion on this is not acceptable. The universal definition is what we need in order for you to prove your position.
I don't know where Jerry lives, but I don't think Jerry realizes that society's idea of "suitable attire" for females has changed significantly since, oh... the 1950s and 60s.
I, for instance, wear a teeshirt or wifebeater every day of my life. With jeans, cut-offs, or boxers (depending upon the weather, and whether I'm going out in public or just hanging around my own apartment complex).
On cold days, I also wear a flannel or hoodie. The only shoes I own are converse all-stars.
That is my entire wardrobe.
It's more or less identical to my husband's wardrobe, except that he owns some expensive running shoes and some additional lycra sport clothes for working out.
At work, I wear a uniform- khakis and a polo. The uniform is identical for male and female employees.
No one has ever suggested to me that I'm dressed "inappropriately" or "like a man".
I'm very dainty. I'm clearly female, whether or not I'm wearing a dress.
I don't think I dress that much differently than most other women (or men, for that matter).
I think dress code violations in schools these days have to do with students wearing clothing that is too revealing.
I have never heard of a public school penalizing a female student for "not dressing like a woman", and I believe that any school that did so would be in pretty serious trouble.