So your problem isn't with President Trump fidgeting during the anthem at a private party, it is that some imaginary conservatives "ranted and raved whenever Obama did anything real or imagined." Thank you for admitting that. You are clearly engaged in the same "wah wah he fidgeted" crying, making a big deal of nothing that you are accusing others of. (And which I have pointedly not engaged in, which is why you have to point to made up "conservatives" instead of quoting my words.
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Again, President Trump fidgeting during a private event, while silly when taken out of context, is objectively not a big deal. Only in your head is this some "gotcha" to "hypocritical conservatives" who criticized some other president that you seem to slavishly struggle to protect from criticism. There are real issues facing America, and they can best be solved by "conservatives" and "liberals" joining together to address them; bickering back and forth over mustard choices and chair arrangements is petty and unproductive - and *that* is the behavior that should be called out.
Again, the fact that you are criticizing one president and not the other, or dismissing one side's actions and not the other, is displaying your hypocrisy and is not actually revealing "conservative's" hypocrisy. It is telling that you attack a group for being hypocritical while offering no evidence, and when challenged label anyone who disagrees with you on *any* point part of that group, even when they are objectively not.
(By telling, I mean to say it reveals the utter weakness of the argument.)