As they should be for everyone, even you.
I believe that "Hetros engage in the lifestyle of penis to vagina sex which results in the natural lifestyle of family creation." which included the term "family creation" pretty much has to refer to "reproduction" because if it doesn't then there is no argument against same-sex marriages.
I mean, my brothers and I are "family" and it's pretty damn difficult for us to get each other pregnant.
The post that "Hetros engage in the lifestyle of penis to vagina sex which results in the natural lifestyle of family creation." came from is Post 534 in this thread and was posted by someone using the name "Gaugingcatenate". Of course, if you are NOT "Gaugingcatenate" then I'm wrong.
Good question. Now, since Post 534 in this thread does exist, what does that make the person who wrote it?
As far as I can determine (and I have been known to be wrong before) if Post 534 exists, then the person who posted it would appear to be someone who:
- has an incredibly bad short term memory;
- likes to invent reality;
- thinks that "Now, don't get me wrong, because I don't oppose abortion, BUT I do object to terminating pregnancies prior to term and killing babies." is a sentence that makes sense;
- doesn't actually understand what they write;
- is incapable of thinking logically;
- is incapable of thinking critically;
- ignores everything that doesn't fit their preconceived prejudices; or
- is a combination of two or more of the above.
I fully understand that you are making an incredibly subtle distinction between "purpose" and "requirement" and that distinction makes a lot of sense PROVIDED that you can have "family creation" without "reproduction".
However, the minute you abandon the connection between "reproduction" and "family creation" then the entire argument "Marriage is intended for 'family creation' and homosexuals cannot have children by each other therefore they shouldn't have the 'right' to get 'married'." becomes total nonsense at the same level of "Now, don't get me wrong because some of my best friends are __
[fill in the blank]__, BUT ... .".
So, correct me if I'm reading you wrong, but your position actually appears to be
"
Marriage is for family creation and there is no requirement that the people getting married have children in order to create a family - THEREFORE, since homosexuals cannot have children by each other they should not be allowed to get married."
if it isn't, then possibly you'd like to clarify why you feel that NO people who CANNOT have children by each other should be allowed to get married (and do so without saying something along the lines of
"Oh, I didn't actually mean 'NO people who CANNOT have children' I meant 'THOSE people who CANNOT have children' and when I meant 'THOSE people' what I actually meant 'THEM' as opposed to 'US and just because I don't think that 'THEY' should have the same rights as 'WE' do that doesn't mean that I'm prejudiced or anything like that because I believe that everyone should have the same rights as everyone else, except when they shouldn't."
PS - You might want to think on Matthew 7:1-3
1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.
2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
Which you will find in an obscure theological tract the identity of which I leave for you to discover on your own. You might try actually reading it, it contains a lot of good Jewish theological thinking.